【退休之后才顿悟，走进这五个圈子，最受社会欢迎】诗韵咏合

常常有人告诉你：退休要断要舍离。

舍去过去的圈子，三五知己就够矣。

可是没人告诉你，脱离人群会孤寂。

人若孤寂就孤独，生活暗淡也无趣。

People often tell you: retire to break to leave.

Give up the past circle, three or five friends is enough.

But no one told you that being apart from the crowd can be lonely.

If lonely people are lonely, life is dull and boring.

因为人的骨子里，还是动物群居性。

若非如此北上广，那么多人全汇聚。

人真最好的状态，不是独来独往的。

是不苛求你自己，合不合群都随意。

Because in human bones, or animal social nature.

If it were not so, so many people gather together.

People really the best state, not alone.

Is not demanding of yourself, fit in or not at random.

我们在做减法时，加法还得也学会。

别把心灵鸡汤话，太过天真当回事。

你得必须有自己，自知之名的认知。

There is no care, is the beginning of the tragedy.

When we do subtraction, we have to learn addition.

Don't take chicken soup for the soul, too naive to take seriously.

You have to have your own knowledge of your own name.

以下五个圈子里，若你要是走进去。

会受社会的欢迎，生活变得温馨些。

发挥余热技能圈，让人向上有情趣。

我的三叔退休后，就回老家种柑橘。

The following five circles, if you walk in.

Will be welcomed by the society, life becomes warmer.

Play waste heat skill circle, let a person upward have fun.

After my third uncle retired, he returned to his hometown to grow citrus.

刚刚开始的时候，抱着好玩的态度。

后来逐渐有兴趣，学种柑橘的技术。

现在他可不得了，也算半个专家了。

每天忙着教村民，如何把橘来种好。

In the beginning, have fun.

Then he became interested in learning the techniques of growing citrus.

Now he's a big deal. He's half an expert.

I was busy teaching the villagers how to plant the oranges well.

虽然没有啥酬劳，很受村民的欢迎。

谁家一有好吃的，都喊三叔请一请。

人生价值又重始，开启美好第二春。

技术永不会过时，年纪越大就越精。

It's very popular with the villagers, though it doesn't pay much.

Who has a delicious food, will call three uncle please.

The value of life begins again, opening a beautiful second spring.

Technology never goes out of style. You get better with age.

 

若是你在退休前，也有技术就更好。

和有技术人交往，进步空间更大了。

从而人生保持着，积极向上姿态好。

人虽老了精神在，朝气蓬勃心不老。

It's even better if you have skills before you retire.

There is more room for advancement by associating with skilled people.

So that life to maintain a positive attitude.

Although a man is old in spirit, he is vigorous in heart.

帮助弱者好人圈，积德积福结善缘。

如果老人退休金，结余留给儿女们。

是很不错的想法，但会助长啃老心。

与其留财于子孙，不如积德积福荫。

Help the weak good circle, accumulate good fortune knot good karma.

If the old man retires, the remaining balance goes to the children.

It's a nice thought, but it feeds the old man.

It is better to accumulate virtue and blessings than to leave wealth to our descendants.

老人给子孙们，最大财富是什么？

它是家庭的品德，还有人间的道德。

众人良好的口碑，阳光向上的人格。

前去帮助比自己，更弱小的需求者。

What is the greatest wealth that the elderly give to their children and grandchildren?

It is the morality of the family, and human morality.

All good reputation, sunny upward personality.

To help those in need who are weaker than themselves.

花一点钱没关系，你的慷慨有价值。

会让很多的人们，感受社会的优越。

当你得到了一句，谢谢你的拿时候。

内心总是喜滋滋，感到无穷的快意。

It's okay to spend a little money. Your generosity counts.

It will make a lot of people feel the superiority of society.

When you get a "Thank you for taking it."

 

The heart is always happy, feel endless pleasure.

进入义工队伍里，加入志愿者行列。

好人好事的活动，若都积极去参与。

你会感触到社会，正面生活的美丽。

各种抱怨皆远离，脸上有光心神怡。

Get involved in volunteer work. Join the ranks of volunteers.

Good activities, if are actively to participate in.

You will feel the beauty of society, positive life.

All kinds of complaints away, the face is bright and happy.

认真读书把诗吟，提升人的精气神。

为啥很多老人们，老年大学纷纷进？

可以圆园他自己，终上大学的美梦。

可让刚刚退休者，失落烦恼烟销尽。

Read the poem carefully, promote people's energy and spirit.

Why do so many old people, old people go to college?

He can realize his dream of going to college.

Can just retired people, lost trouble smoke done.

在书本的熏陶下，慢慢化解失落情。

可以结交很多的，正能量的朋友们。

它有可以让生活，变得充实与自信。

老人年龄挡不住，精神永远葆青春。

Under the influence of books, slowly dissolve the feeling of loss.

You can make a lot of positive friends.

It can make life full and confident.

 

Old age can not stop, the spirit of youth forever.

读书多了人气质，也会变得更年轻。

若是你的生活圈，老年大学很遥远。

那样也没啥关系，图书馆内常转转。

社区小学走一走，感受孩子的乐观。

Reading more human temperament, will become younger.

If your life circle, old age university is far away.

It doesn't matter. I walk around the library a lot.

Community primary school walk around, feel the optimism of children.

当然你还可以去，社区托管班看看。

能够照顾到孩子，感悟天真与烂漫。

老年大学读书玩，如同秉烛夜游般。

能给自己指方向，也让借光人同览。

And, of course, you can go to community care.

Can take care of the children, feeling naive and artless.

Old people study and play in college, just like a candle at night.

They can point them in the right direction, and they can let other people see them.

城乡发展文明圈，展示人生的精彩。

文明需要年轻人，更需你我他参与。

现代文明城市里，常常看到老人们。

手臂带着红袖章，路口指挥着行人。

Urban and rural development civilization circle, show the wonderful life.

Civilization needs young people, but also needs you, me and him to participate.

Old people are often seen in modern civilized cities.

With a red armband on his arm, he directs pedestrians at the intersection.

老人戴上红袖章，融入城市生活里。

异乡也有家乡味，满面春风神奕奕。

引导别人文明时，自己变得更文明。

The old man wears a red armband and blends into city life.

A foreign land also has the smell of home, a face of spring breeze.

Civilization is to create a cultured civilized man.

When you lead others to civilization, you become more civilized.

本地做了文明人，那么以后你出行。

异地也会展示出，行为举止皆文明。

从而建立良好的，老人形象予世人。

退休老人在社会，得到认可与尊敬。

Local do civilized people, so later you travel.

Being in a different place shows you behave in a civilized way.

In order to establish a good image of the old man to the world.

Retired people are recognized and respected in society.

一日三餐美食圈，家庭烟火情绵绵。

上班时候忙上班，熬夜加班无空闲。

那时哪有时间去，研究美食漫消遣。

做饭不及点外卖，想吃美食在梦间。

Three meals a day food circle, family fireworks.

Busy at work, stay up late and work overtime without leisure.

I don't have time to study gourmet pastimes.

Cook less than order takeout, want to eat food in the dream.

外卖吃多不舒服，想自做菜饱口福。

常常想起老家菜，传统特色做法多。

如何变成美食家？退休生活好好过。

闭门造车可不行，要走出去学技术。

Take-out to eat more uncomfortable, want to make food.

Often think of hometown dishes, traditional characteristics of the practice.

How to become a foodie? Enjoy your retirement.

You can't build a car behind closed doors. You have to go out and learn.

美食达人相交流，家常便饭怎么做。

可口健康不单调，真得好好下功夫。

生活之中千百味，文火煲粥慢慢煮。

儿女喜欢回家吃，一家和睦多幸福。

Food experts to exchange, how to do the potluck.

Delicious health is not monotonous, really have to work hard.

Life in thousands of flavors, slow cooker porridge cooking.

Children like to go home to eat, family harmony more happy.

很多人都误认为，狮子老虎不合群。

只有蝼蚁或苍蝇，才会合群在一起。

我们不要对合群，嗤之以鼻鄙视之。

而要正确去理解，世界万物皆人聚。

Many people mistakenly believe that lions and tigers do not fit in.

Only ants or flies, will flock together.

Let's not turn our noses up at fitting in.

And to be understood correctly, everything in the world is human

狮有队伍守领地，老虎自己有群体。

只是它们的个体，相对蝼蚁大无比。

君子矜持而不争，群而不党立乾坤。

作为君子处于世，处事庄重要合群。

但莫结党去营私，善于群处善待人。

Lions have teams to defend their territory, tigers have their own group.

It's just that they're individually huge, relative to the ants.

A gentleman is reserved but not fighting, and a group is not a party.

As a gentleman in the world, doing things solemn to fit in.

But don't form a party to do private business, good at group place to treat people.

既不排斥群体化，不被群体所同化。

随聚随散随缘份，生活才会美如画。

走进一些有温度，又有能量人中央。

吸收充分的养分，从而持续的成长。

Neither reject the group, not be assimilated by the group.

With gathering with scattered with fate, life will be beautiful.

Into the middle of something that has heat and energy.

Absorb sufficient nutrients, so as to continue to grow.

但是一定要拒绝，勾心斗角职场群。

千万不要去理会，妨碍别人暴走群。

远离抱怨网络圈，添加充满阳光圈。

也给群体圈子里。带来阳光美无限。

But be sure to reject the scheming career group.

Don't let it get in the way of others.

Stay away from the complaining circle and add the sunshine circle.

Also to the community circle. Bring sunshine and beauty.

新的时代真很好，我们不要总抱怨。

不要孤傲不合群，笑着活在新世界。

一张笑脸给别人，自己也会满笑脸。

扶杖难行二三里，扶人却能上泰山。

The new era is so good. Let's not complain all the time.

Don't be lonely and unsociable, smile and live in the new world.

A smiling face to others, oneself will be full of smiling face.

Stick hard to go two or three miles, but help people can mount Tai.

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