【致慢慢老去的自己】诗韵咏合

时间悠悠如流水，光阴从来不等人。

冬天去了春天来，夏至去了秋又临。

人生不过三万天，时光荏苒悄悄行。

然而岁月这把刀，刀刀催老竟不停。

Time flows like flowing water, and time never waits for anyone.

Winter has gone, spring has come, and summer solstice has gone, and autumn has come again.

Life is only 30000 days, time flies quietly.

However, time is like a knife, and the knife keeps aging.

我们不知不觉中，变得老态不知晓。

人已渐渐变老了，也就渐渐明白了。

人生中最重要的，不过就是六件事。

但是区区六件事，世界究竟几人知？

We unconsciously become old and unaware.

People have gradually grown old, and they have gradually come to understand.

The most important things in life are just six things.

But just six things, how many people in the world know?

七情六欲人人有，情绪波动无尽休。

有人暴跳时如雷，有人心如止水悠。

古言人生如逆旅，我亦行人度中流。

人生就是一旅程，一路风雨苦行舟。

Everyone has seven emotions and six desires, and emotions fluctuate endlessly.

Some people jump like thunder, while others feel as calm as water.

As the saying goes, life is like a retrograde journey, and I also walk through the middle stream.

Life is a journey, sailing through storms and hardships.

人的一生会遇到，许多人和许多事。

所以绝对不可能。所有人都理解你。

我们渐渐变老了，也就慢慢明白了：

人若心宽则事达，心静人和万事好。

A person's life will encounter many people and many things.

So it's absolutely impossible. Everyone understands you.

As we grow older, we gradually understand:

If a person has a broad heart, they will achieve success, and if they have a calm heart, everything will be good for them.

 

为人一定要学会。照顾自己的情绪。

保持健康心态好，安度一生似仙逸。

生命转眼瞬即逝，流水落花飘飘去。

要把心情照顾好，万事之中是第一。

To be a person, one must learn. Take care of your emotions.

Maintain a healthy mindset and live a peaceful life like immortality.

Life fleets in a blink of an eye, and flowing flowers float away.

Take good care of your mood and prioritize everything.

 

（乐观积极，凡事看开）

(Optimistic and positive, always optimistic)

乐观积极度平生，凡事看开喜盈盈。

心是人身上的灯，照亮全身映心灵。

人心若是觉昏暗，整个世界昏沉沉。

人心若是皆光明，整个世界就光明。

The heart is a lamp on the human body, illuminating the whole body and reflecting the soul.

If the human heart feels dim, the whole world becomes dim.

 

If all hearts are bright, the whole world will be bright.

人这一生会遇到，无数意料外的事。

人的一生处下来，跌宕起伏是常态。

谁的一生都无法，一帆风顺到永远。

一些事它能让人，心花怒放喜容颜。

In this lifetime, people will encounter countless unexpected things.

Throughout a person's life, ups and downs are the norm.

No one's life can be smooth sailing forever.

 

Some things can make people feel happy and happy.

然而也有一些事，让人烦恼费心力。

无论事情好与坏，都要坦然去处之。

学会积极乐观地，笑对狂风与骤雨。

若心小了事就大，心大事小烟消去。

However, there are also some things that make people worry and struggle.

Regardless of whether things are good or bad, one must calmly go where they are.

Learn to be positive and optimistic, laugh at the strong winds and showers.

 

If the heart is small, the matter will be big, and if the heart is big, the smoke will disappear.

凡事看开莫计较，不为困难所烦扰。

不为小事费心力，该放下的放下了。

因为时间不等人，我们慢慢渐老。

学会解脱自己心，心无杂念心态好。

Don't worry about everything and don't be troubled by difficulties.

Don't bother about small things, let go of what needs to be put down.

Because time waits for no one, we gradually grow old.

Learn to free oneself from distractions and have a good mindset.

 

（认真生活，安度晚年）

(Live a serious life and enjoy your old age)

文学大师狄更斯，曾经说过一句话：

生活从来都不会，像你想象那么好。

生活但也绝不会，像你想象那么坏。

曾经我们背负着，只为为别人活着。

The literary master Dickens once said:

Life has never been as good as you imagine.

Life is never as bad as you imagine.

Once we carried it on our shoulders, only to live for others.

如今卸下了重担，学会为自己而活。

人在世上一辈子，生死都是被动的。

甚至包括人生路，看似选择有很多。

其实往往没得选，任其摆布没奈何。

Now that I have unloaded my burden, I have learned to live for myself.

Throughout one's lifetime, life and death are passive.

Even including the path of life, there seem to be many choices.

 

In fact, there is often no choice, and there is no choice but to be at their mercy.

可是不管怎么样，这一生也过来了。

年龄渐长才明白，放下负担最为好。

前去探索去追寻，寻找自己的爱好。

找到心灵的归属，探索人生的奥妙。

But no matter what, this life has also come.

As I grow older, I realize that it's best to let go of the burden.

Explore, pursue, and find your own hobbies.

Find the belonging of the soul and explore the mysteries of life.

认真对待每一天，安安心心度晚年。

圣人孔子曾有云：发愤忘食苦耕耘。

因为享乐以忘忧，不知老之将来临。

这样放松好心态，值得拥有与践行。

Take every day seriously and live your old age with peace of mind.

The sage Confucius once said: Forgetting to eat with anger and plowing hard.

Because pleasure is to forget worries, without knowing that old age will come.

 

 

This kind of relaxed mindset is worth having and practicing.

（精简圈子，享受独处）

(Simplify your circle and enjoy solitude)

 

精简活动的圈子，享受独处的乐趣。

独处它是一个人，清清欢欢无忧虑。

我们渐渐都老了，精简圈子最为好。

享受独处的时光。圈子不是多就好。

Not all circles are useful to oneself.

Not all friends are worth confiding in.

Learn to accept things that go against your wishes, and learn to enjoy the present moment.

Simplify the complexity and master it, for the rest of your life.

 

 

若想格局得提升，狭隘圈子莫靠近。

若想更快的成长，不要虚度耗光阴。

就得辞别一那些，耗费光阴朋友们。

精简圈子才明白，美好圈子最怡神。

If you want to improve the situation, don't approach narrow circles.

If you want to grow faster, don't waste your time.

I have to bid farewell to those who have wasted time, my friends.

 

Simplify the circle to understand that a beautiful circle is the most enjoyable.

不是所有的圈子，都对自己有用的。

不是所有的朋友，都是值得交心底。

学会接受愿违事，学会享受当下景。

删繁就简掌握好，自己淡淡的余生。

Simplify the circle of activities and enjoy the joy of solitude.

Alone, it is a person, pure and joyful without worries.

We are gradually getting old, and streamlining our circle is best.

Enjoy the time of solitude. Not having many circles is good.

 

（珍惜朋友，时常联系）

(Cherish friends and keep in touch)

渐渐老了失童颜，再回首时才发现。

一生真正的朋友，寥寥无几在人间。

假朋友们早消失，岁月流逝化云烟。

走过半生才明白：人在情在意心猿。

Gradually getting old and losing its childlike appearance, I only realized when I looked back.

There are very few true friends in life on earth.

Fake friends disappear early, and time passes and turns into smoke.

It took half a life to understand that people care about apes in love.

一起走过大半生，实在不易非等闲。

不是所有世间人，都能走进我的圈。

它也不是所有人，值得我们常联系。

选择久经检验的，朋友交好续千缘。

Walking through most of our lives together is not easy and easy.

Not all people in the world can enter my circle.

It's not everyone, it's worth keeping in touch with.

Choose those who have been tested and have a good relationship with friends.

 

朋友贵精不贵多，朋友再多又如何？

狐朋狗友有多少，烂醉如泥鼠一窝。

无论如何比不过，三两知己推心腹。

人得知己一人足，闲谈风云无穷乐。

Friends are not expensive, but how about having more friends?

How many fox friends and dog friends are there? Drunk like a nest of mud mice.

No matter what, it cannot be compared. Three or two confidants push their confidants.

A person must have a confidant, and chatting is endless joy.

 

 

理解子女推心腹，心态一定要平和。

荀子修身中有云：喜不过予怒强夺。

在与儿女相处中，此话同样很正确。

一场旅程人生路，渐行渐远路蹉跎。

Understanding children's confidants, one must have a peaceful mindset.

In Xunzi's cultivation, there is a saying: 'Joy cannot be overpowered by anger.'.

tatement is also very correct.

A journey of life, gradually drifting away, the road wasted.

我们在与儿女间，皆有代沟的感觉。

我们渐渐变老子，儿女长大趋成熟。

他们不是小孩子，什么都需手把手。

我们一点要学会，换位理解予自由。

We all feel a generation gap with our children.

We gradually become old men, and our children grow up and mature.

They are not children, they need hands for everything.

We need to learn how to empathize with freedom.

懂得子女的成长，明白子女的不易。

保持一颗平和心，力所能及予支持。

心态平和是父母，一种修养与睿智。

理解子女是父母，一种坦然与矜持。

Understand the growth of children and their difficulties.

Maintain a peaceful heart and provide support within your capabilities.

Peace of mind is a parent, a form of cultivation and wisdom.

Understanding that children are parents is a calm and reserved attitude.

 

 

注：图片来自新浪博客

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