《增广贤文》中英（274）

吃得亏，坐一堆

《增广贤文》

The Supplemented Collection of Adages

吃得亏，坐一堆；

要得好，大做小。

    People can stay together only if they have the spirit to agree to sacrifice their own interests;

    People can keep on good terms with each other only when big problems can be turned into small problems and then no problems.

（江湖侠客吴仲湛 辑）