《增广贤文》中英（255）

宜从容不宜激烈

《增广贤文》

The Supplemented Collection of Adages

处骨肉之变，宜从容不宜激烈；

当家庭之衰，宜惕厉不宜委靡。

    When contradictions Arise among blood relatives, treat them in a mild way Instead of a sharp way.

    When your family declines, be strong and vigorous Instead of dispirited and inert.

（江湖侠客吴仲湛 辑）