【见行堂语】

“你伤害我，所以我也要伤害你”，正因为这样的心念，所以大家都轮回。真正想要从苦中跳脱出来，超越轮回，就是从念头的转变开始。
念头转变了，自己轮回的“链条”就开始断裂了，实际上，这与“原谅对方”没关系，实实在在是“解脱自己”。懂得宽容的人，最先获得幸福。

“Now that you have hurt me, I’ve got to hurt you back.”

 It is because of such ideas, all of us fall into cyclic existence. 

 If we really want to jump out of suffering and go beyond the cyclic existence,

we need to start changing our mind.

Once our minds change, the chain of our cyclic existence will start breaking down. 

In fact, this has little to do with “forgiving others” and more with actually “liberating ourselves”. 

People who have more tolerance will obtain happiness sooner.