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一种错觉--威廉.S.毛姆

(2025-01-26 19:34:00)
一种错觉--威廉.S.毛姆
    认为青春是快乐的,这是一种错觉,是那些失去了青春的人的一种错觉。年轻人知道,自己是不幸的,他们脑子里充斥了被灌输的不切实际的想法,每次与现实接触时,都会碰的头破血流。似乎,他们是某种阴谋的牺牲者:那些他们所读过的精挑细选的书,那些长辈们谈起的因遗忘而蒙上玫瑰色薄雾的往事,都为年轻人提供了一种不真实的生活。
    他们必须自己发现,所有他们读到的、听到的东西,都是谎言、谎言、谎言。每一次的这样的发现,都像是另一根钉子钉入他们的身体,那被束缚在生活的十字架上的身体。可是奇怪的是,每个曾经被这种错觉折磨过的人,轮到他们时,有一种不可控制的力量,让他们不自觉地为别人增添这种错觉。
An Illusion  
 William S. Maugham 
  It is an illusion that youth is happy, an illusion of those who have lost it; but the young know they are wretched, for they are full of the truthless ideals which have been instilled into them, and each time they come in contact with the real they are bruised and wounded. It looks as if they were victims of a conspiracy; for the books they read, ideal by the necessity of selection, and the conversation of their elders, who look back upon the past through a rosy haze of forgetfulness, prepare them for an unreal life.
   They must discover for themselves that all they have read and all they have been told are lies, lies, lies; and each discovery is another nail drivens into the body on the cross of life. The strange thing is that each one who has gone through that bitter disillusionment add to it in his turn,, unconsciously, by the power within him which is stronger than himself.
珍惜现在 不再错过
 医生的儿子从19楼一跃而下,留下一封遗书,信中留言:最想爸爸陪他,最想看电影,最希望快快乐乐……儿子往生之后,爸爸才明白,人生中最珍贵的不是成就,而是亲情。
可惜千金难买早知道,很多美好的事,往往简简单单就被轻易错过了。
事实上,我也错过一些事。错过的理由很简单:以为还有明天。
事实上,明天是不可靠的。要不,日休禅师怎么会说,很多人的一生中,只做了“等待”与“后悔”两件事,合起来就叫“来不及”。我们老爱说:长大再说,有钱再说,老了再说……可是到了那时候,却什么都不必说了.
 医生的儿子从19楼一跃而下,留下一封遗书,信中留言:最想爸爸陪他,最想看电影,最希望快快乐乐……儿子往生之后,爸爸才明白,人生中最珍贵的不是成就,而是亲情。
 A doctor’s son jumped from the 19th floor of a building and left a posthumous letter which expressed his strong desire for staying more with his father, going to see a movie with his father, etc. Not until his son committed suicide had the doctor realized that the most precious thing is not career achievement, but the tight and intact family bonds.
 It is no use crying over spilt milk. We have missed a lot of precious things in our life without knowing to cherish them.
 Actually, I also missed something precious before. The reason why we would have missed those precious things is less than simple: we had thought that we could still own them tomorrow.
Nevertheless, tomorrow is actually by no means reliable. There was a famous Buddhist monk saying that in many people’s lives, they have only done two things: waiting and regretting. The result is that they were always too late to cherish what they had before they lost it. We would often claim to do something when we grow up, or when we have money or when we become old, etc. However, when we reach the condition we have expected, we could no longer do realize our wish any more, because we have lost it by then.

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