愚蠢妈妈把自己孩子活活渴死

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在阿尔及利亚,一个八岁的女孩和一个十岁的男孩子,居然因为父母要求他们封斋而活活喝死!!!家长发现他们的尸体在即将开斋前的几分种。
2011年的斋月是8月,一年中最热的一个月,而且也是一年中白天最长的一个月。按照伊斯兰教的教条,是每一个成年健康的伊斯兰教徒有义务实行封斋的功课。以让生活富裕的人们了解饥渴的感觉,从而达到对穷人的怜悯和对主给予人类食物的感恩。
我先不说教条的事情,我只知道这个封斋是大有讲究的。主要是针对成年健康的伊斯兰教徒!这个成年指发育完成的人,一般女孩子从九岁起,男孩子从十二岁起,看发育情况而定,也就是说没发育完的孩子没有必要严格按照规定做。就算是成年人,如果有生病呀、例假呀、怀孕或哺乳甚至旅行都是不被要求去封斋的。
问题就是,很多父母自己对封斋的目的还没有完全明白,就去要求孩子实行。当然有一些父母为了将来做准备,让孩子试试看封斋,稍稍地体验一下饥渴并没有什么坏处,可把他们渴到死,是真是太过份了!
这两个死去的孩子都还没有到必须封斋的年龄,而且都向他们的母亲提出过喝水的要求,母亲却还是一味的强调伊斯兰教的大规定,而忽视那些规定中的小细节,为了不让孩子感到喝,让他们去睡觉!结果在开斋前的几分钟被发现已被活活喝死了。请问有哪个宗教会要求母亲去故意喝死自己的孩子?这全是父母自己对宗教的不了解造成的遗憾!
让孩子去封斋,至少要等到他们发育成熟并强壮到有足够的力气去完成整天的饥渴,而且很重要的一点就是在早上日出前,应该让他们吃饱喝好以为一天的封斋打下基础。对于一个来了例假妇女尚且规定是不可以去封斋的,何况对孩子?我实在不明白这些父母是怎么想的!听到这个消息后所有人都气得大骂这种父母,更可悲于他们的无知!对孩子来说,父母要教会孩子的是封斋中更有意义的部分:对言行的斋戒,也就是不骂人,不说脏话,不说慌,不在别人背后谈论他们等。
我们家的老大在今年的斋月已经是七岁半的大男孩了,我也知道在阿拉伯国家很多相同年龄的孩子开始被父母要求去封斋,但大多数只是试几个小时就罢了。而且就我对老大的了解,吃饭对他来说是如此重要,所以我们根本想都没有想过要让他去试着封斋,对于宗教,我们希望他通过自己的学习而从内心喜欢这个宗教,而自己想要试着去封斋,决对不是父母按自己的宗教习惯就去要求孩子必须这样必须那样。如果不是他自己真正了解宗教的含义,我想他对宗教的忠诚度也是会大打折扣的。
任何一件事情都有它的过程,每件事物都要慢慢去了解去实现,特别对于孩子,他们的行为更需要父母正确的去引导启发!做家长是一件非常大的责任,如果没有准备好,请不要盲目的行动!
海外新闻(2011年8月11日)原文转载:
Ramadan is a Holy month and God has ordered us to fast for the
numerous benefits fasting has but has also given us the mind to
think and decide when it's dangerous to fast; like when being ill
or being old or if fasting will do more harm to our bodies than
good.
Children are not obliged to fast. That's a fact. Parents should
start teaching their kids to fast gradually until they are old
enough and strong enough to fast a full day.
Children in the growing age should not be forced to fast,
especially when it's hot and the day is too long for them to stay
without food or water.
In Algeria, two kids died of thirst because their parents would't
allow them to drink water and encouraged them to wait until
sunset.
Both children went to their mothers and asked them for water, but
the mothers told them to wait and have patience, only to find their
kids dead minutes before the Iftar!
The first, an 8-year-old girl, died of thirst after fasting a
whole day during a heat wave that hit Algeria this week.
The second, a 10-year-old boy, also died of thirst just the
same.
The parents, although wanting good for their children, did them
harm and caused their deaths.
Forcing their children to fast has proven that they do not
understand the commandments of Islam relating to Ramadan and the
purpose of fasting.
We say that children should fast the "fasting of the birdie"
which is having a glass of milk in the morning, something small for
lunch and drinking a couple of glasses of water during the day
until the sunset.
They should also learn the most important part of fasting, which is
helping others, not saying bad words, not shouting, not lying and
not talking about others behind their backs.