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哪部电影曾经让你在深夜中痛哭？

文/樊小成

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韩国《亲爱的，不要跨过那条江》，这是一部纪录片。

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质朴，平淡，却又催人泪下。讲述的是98的老爷爷和89岁的老奶奶生活的点点滴滴，感觉讲述的就是自己的爷爷奶奶爸爸妈妈甚至是未来的自己。

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两位老人住在离儿女很远的几乎与世隔绝的小山上，在生命的后半程相互扶持，相互依赖……

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打扫院子时互扔树叶

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下雪时一起品尝雪的味道

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晚上奶奶害怕一个人上厕所叫爷爷在外面给她唱歌

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奶奶腿疼爷爷就给她揉一揉

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采花给对方戴上

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两位老人后悔在孩子活着的时候没有给孩子买一件内衣，于是给死去的孩子买了衣服，两人承诺无论谁先走就带给孩子

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奶奶生日不懂事的儿女争吵，两位老人伤心的哭了

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心爱的狗狗死去了，两位老人将它埋葬

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这些琐碎的生活其实就是我们的生活，平淡而又不失味道。

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两个人相扶到老总会有一个要先走，爷爷患有气管炎，晚上不停的咳嗽，奶奶起来照顾他，陪他聊天。

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最后爷爷病的越来越严重了，也许奶奶知道爷爷或许该走了……

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奶奶把准备好的衣服给爷爷先烧去

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最终爷爷还是在一个寒冷的冬天走了

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即便没有我也要好好过……冷的话要忍住

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最后的镜头停留在奶奶一个人在大雪覆盖的山坡上，对着爷爷的坟哭泣，空旷的山里只有奶奶的哭声，孤独，无助。陪伴是最长情的告白，也许人最大孤独就是这吧…………

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来源邀稿：樊小成

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