莎拉 每周爱情运势 2012.9.16~9.22 摩羯译文
(2012-09-15 23:48:31)
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摩羯座——译者:脚步
假如你是单身,你可能正在想:“好吧,我当然是在扮明灯吸引扑火的飞蛾,但招来的这些为什么总是不对口,让我觉得这么无趣,要么就是拿不到手的类型呢?”原因无它,态度问题而已。对于在恋人身上希望拥有和缺失的东西,你可是(在想象中或口头上)有着一个明细表的。我们通常会在不知不觉之中选择那些得不到的人。求而不得便会令人异常向往,它意味着我们遭遇了竞争对手或是挑战,而这通常便是我们儿时与生命之间所做出的斗争的延续。而那些尝试过了的值得信赖之事,无论附带着什么样的不愉快,则令人可笑地通常会是安全的确定无疑的定论。然而在接下来的几周里,对于结合的恐惧看起来将不那么可怕了;想要继续生活继续去爱的欲望则诱人非常。但无论你单身还是有伴,作为人类而活、而非尝试着成为完美的存在不是挺好的吗?
Capricorn
If single, you may be thinking, 'well, of course I'm attracting
moths to a flame, but why are they always the wrong types that I
find so boring or unavailable? What's wrong with me?' Nothing,
except attitude. You have a list (imaginary or literally) of what
you want in a lover and what you don't. Unconsciously we often
chose those who are not available. Unavailability is highly
desirable, it means we have a rival or a challenge, often
continuing our earlier childhood battles with life. The tried and
trusted, however unpleasant is often ironically, a safe bet. Yet
over the next few weeks, the fear of merger will seem less scary;
the desire to get on with life and love is more enticing. But
whether single or attached, isn't it nice to be a human being
rather than trying to be a perfect being?