Wish you all happy valentine's day, no matter you are in love or not, let's wish the best, here I would like to share my insight with you. (wrote on Feb 14,2008, Shanghai)

 

To women who are in love or looking for love:

 

1.Please open your both eyes, not only open them, but open them big enough to see what you are, what he is, what you want, what he wants, so to avoid to be hurt.

 

2.Before moving on, before complete trust in each other, don't reveal too much personal information, don't bring him to your place, the less information you give, the less harass you will get, you never know what he will do to you against those information.

 

3.Love bravely and boldly. If you are sure he is the right one for you, and you are each others destiny, love with your whole true heart without any reservation.

 

4.Trust your own judgment. You are you own master, you are the only one to make the decision for yourself, you can ask others opinion but follow up your own instinct, other people they don't know your real situation and they judge from their own experiences and they cannot make the right judgment before seeing or knowing the truth.

 

5. Be prepared to be hurt. No one likes to be hurt, but if things don't work out, even you are hurt, you have to face it and bless the one you have loved, cherish this memory and keep it in heart, you will be more mature and experienced. Nothing is really good or bad, take the good from the bad.