It has been about 4 months I have not updated my blog, as my life is in a new stage which I never experienced though full of excitement and conflicts. Well, life is full of ups and downs. I guess mostly downs.

Here I would like to share a little conclusion of my experience: it's better to be single than wedded bitterly; open your eyes and ears big before you marry a person; make everything ( at least the big issues) upfront; marriage essentially is a relationship of economy and beneficial; the real and pure love is too weak to support and maintain marriage. As myself being a woman, I would like women not be fooled and used. Please check out if he is a responsible guy, and the reason why he broke up with his ex, so you can decide if he is qualified as a husband or father. If not, then  better finish it. Better be finger off than arm off.

Marriage life is not easy.It is not a fantasy. Sometimes I do think single life is better.

wrote on July 9, 2008 Shanghai