我和你的目标

我想爱你而不用抓住你

欣赏你而不须批判你

和你齐参与而不会伤害你

邀请你而不必强求你

离开你亦无须言歉咎

批评你但并非责备你

并且

帮助你而没有半点看低你

如果你也能同样地对待我

那么

我俩的相会就是真诚的

而且能彼此润泽

--萨提亚

     Goals for You and Me

I want to love you without clutching;

appreciate you without judging;

join you without invading;

invite you without demanding;

leave you without guilt;

criticize you without blaming;

and help you without insulting.

If I can have the same from you;

then we can truly met and

enrich each other