What are some of the most common difficulties in life?

- loneliness/unemployment
- bullying/bankruptcy
- relationships with other people
- divorce
- breaking up of relationship with partner
- debt
- terminal illness/HIV AIDS
- Bird Flu

What might you say to someone who is going through a difficult time?

Did you mention any of these phrases to express sympathy?

I'm sorry for your loss.

Please accept my condolences.

I can really sympathize with you.

I understand what you're going through right now.

Bereavement

Which of these life difficulties is the most serious? Which is the least serious?

Divorce - I understand what you're going through.

How do you people express sympathy in your country?

Do you send a card or flowers?

Do you spend more time with that person so they won't feel lonely, or do you spend less time with them so they can grieve privately?

Do you tell others about it, or keep the information to yourself?

Death in the family - Please accept my condolences.

Downsizing - You must really be disappointed.

I know how disappointed you must feel.