生活的方针，文短却深刻，简单而隽永。管他谁说的，有道理就好。

         1. 要考虑到，浓情烈爱和丰功伟业都蕴含着极大的风险。

　　2. 即便失败了，也别错过其中的教训。

　　3. 遵守三个原则：尊重自己，尊重他人，为个人一切行为负责。

　　4. 别忘了，塞翁失马，焉知非福。

　　5. 先弄懂规则，才会知道该如何适当地打破成规。

　　6. 别让小小的争执伤害到深厚的关系。

　　7. 发现自己犯了错的时候，立即采取补救措施。

　　8. 每天花点时间独处。

　　9. 拥抱变革，但也要坚守个人的价值观。

　　10. 请牢记，保持缄默有时候是最好的答复。

　　11. 生活诚实正直。那么，老来回首时，就可以重温生之喜悦。

　　12. 家中气氛和谐安乐，即是你这一生的基石。

　　13. 和亲人意见相左时，请就事论事，别翻旧账。

　　14. 和他人分享知识，这是永垂不朽的途径之一。

　　15. 善待地球。

　　16. 每年拜访一个你从未驻足过的地方。

　　17. 请记住，所谓的最佳关系是指双方对彼此的爱凌驾于双方对彼此的需求之上。

　　18. 看看您在成功之前必须放弃多少，就足可衡量成功的程度。

　　19. 爱和烹饪之道即在恣情任性而为。

1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.

3. Follow the 3 R’s: respect for self, respect for others and responsibility for all your actions.

4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.

5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.

6. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great relationship.

7. When you realize you have made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

8. Spend some time alone every day.

9. Open arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.

10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.

12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.

13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.

14. Share your knowledge. It is a way to achieve immortality.

15. Be gentle with the earth.

16. Once a year, go someplace you have never been before.

17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.