A long time ago , there was a huge apple tree . A little boy to come and lay around it every day . He climbed to the top , ate the apples . took a nap under the shadow ... He loved the tree and the tree loved to play with him .

 

Time went by ... the little boy had grown up and he no longer played around the tree every day .

 

One day , the boy came back to the tree and he looked sad .

 

" Come and play with me , " the tree asked the boy .

 

" I am no longer a kid , I don't play around tree anymore . " The boy replied , " I want toys , I need money to buy them . "

 

" Sorry , but I don't have money ... but you can pick all my apples and sell them . So , you will have money . "

 

The boy was so excited . He grabbed all the apples on the tree and left happily . the boy never came back after he picked the apples . The tree was sad .

 

One day , The boy who now turned into a man  returned and the tree was so excited .

 

" Come and play with me , " the tree said . " I don't have time to play . I have to work for my family . We need a house for shelter . Can you help me ? "

 

" Sorry but I don't have a house . But you can chop off my branches to build your house . " So the boy cut all the branches off the tree and left happily . The tree glad to see him happy but the boy never came back since then . The tree was again lonely and sad .

  

One hot summer day , the boy returned and the tree was delighted . " Come and play with me ! " the tree said . " I am getting old . I want to go sailing to relax myself .Can you give me a boat ? "

 

" Use my trunk to build your boat . You can sail far and be happy . " So the boy cut the tree trunk to make a boat . He went sailing and never showed up for a long time . The tree was happy , but it was not true .

  

Finally , the boy returned after he left for so many years .

 

" Sorry , my boy . But I don't have anything for you anymore . No more apples for you ... " the tree said .

 

" I don't have teeth to bite , " the boy replied .

 

" No more trunk for you to climb on . "

 

" I am too old for that now , " the boy said .

 

" I really can't give you anything ... the only thing left is my dying roots . "

 

" I don't need much now , just a place to rest . I am tired after all these years . " The boy replied .

 

" Good ! Old tree roots is the best place to lean on and rest . Come , Come sit down with me  and rest . The boy sat down and the tree was glad and smiled with tears ...

 

 

 

 

    这就是我们每个人的故事。这棵树就是我们的父母。小时候，我们喜欢和爸爸妈妈一起晚......长大后，我们就离开了他们，只要需要什么东西或者遇到麻烦的时候，才回到他们身边。无论如何，父母永远都在那儿，倾其所有使你快乐。你可能认为这个男孩对树很残酷，但这就是我们每个人对待父母的方式。

 

    白天花些时间出去，独自倾听自己的心声。你可能想利用这段安静的时间沉思或祈祷。无论如何利用这段时间，关键是要排除周围所有的噪音，关注自己的内心深处。安静的时间进行深呼吸也能帮你集中注意力。我知道在特别忙碌的日子找到安静的时间很难，然而这很重要！即使一天只有10分钟，你也要溜开抓住它，安静的时间确实能使你的生命变得不同，它促使你倾听上帝与你的心灵对话，使你想起他赋予你的完美的爱。

 

     坦诚对自己，注重行动吧。事实胜于雄辩，行动才能证明事实。你的行动是如何说明你的呢？如果你说热爱自己的工作，而你的行动正好相反，你认为哪个更有说服力呢？？言语还是行动？另一方面，如果你说不擅长某项工作，但你的行动正好相反，这也很重要。你怎么处理你这种能力？你可以由此在生活中做出更多的选择，坦诚对自己也建立在以前的行为上，你以后的行动将会以事实为基础，而不是你的言词，不管你的潜意识告诉你什么，你都能够拥有无尽的爱，关键是首先你要无条件地爱自己。