文/王文（本论坛专家）

看看这位初中老师是怎么教育学生尊重别人的。欢迎翻译，评论。

Please copy onto a separate piece of paper. Be sure to put your name in the right hand corner of your paper. Title your paper "Respect".

We all need and deserve to be respected. However, we cannot respect others when we don't respect ourselves. When you are rude, put people down, talk negatively, or insult people, you are hurting your respect for yourself as well as for others.

Everyone needs to feel good about himself or herself in order to get along with others. When someone does not feel good about himself or herself, he or she speaks and acts in ways that hurt others. When you don't feel good about yourself, everyone loses.

We all have bad days. No one is immune to having things go wrong. That is why we always have to remember to treat people with respect, even if we are not feeling very good about ourselves, or can tell that they may not be feeling much respect for themselves. When you automatically treat people with respect, you help everyone feel better about themselves.

How can I treat people with respect automatically?

1. Ignore them when they say or do something that hurts my feelings.
2. Don't argue or fight with someone who is obviously not feeling good about him/herself.
3. Overlook it when someone is trying to tease me to get me mad.
4. Don't say things in anger-count to ten before I speak or don't say anything until the anger has passed.
5. Don't say negative things. I have a right to my opinions, but I do not have the right to express it.
6. Always try to think of everyone as doing the best they can-see everyone as the best that they can be.
7. Put myself in the other person's place and try to understand what their point-of-view is.
8. Treat others as I would like to be treated.

Debby 和博友我行我素都以最快速度送来了翻译，非常感谢！请看译文：

请准备好一张单独的空白纸，将你的名字写在纸的右下角，然后，写下命题：尊重。
每个人都需要尊重和被尊重，然而，如果我们不知道如何尊重我们自己，那么我们也将不知道如何尊重其他人。当你的言行粗鲁时，当你瞧不起别人时，当你消极时，或者当你侮辱别人时，你不仅不尊重别人，同时你也不尊重自己。
每个人都需要自信、乐观，这样才能和别人相处融洽。当你对你自己都感到不满意时，你的言行就会或多或少地伤害到别人，也就是在这种心境下，你会让你身边的人都意气消沉。
每个人都有运气不好的时候，但没人会故意将事情搞坏。因此，我们没有必要埋怨别人，而是时刻牢记尊重别人，即使在我们伤心失落的时候，或者让别人感觉到不怎么被尊重的时候，亦是如此。当你自然而然地去尊重的别人时，你无形中也让别人自信、乐观。
我怎么才能自觉地做到尊重他人呢？
1、当他们说了或者做了什么伤害到我感情的时候，忽略他们。
2、当某人很明显的状态不好时，不要与他/她吵架或者打架。
3、当有人试图嘲笑我以使我变得疯狂时，宽恕他吧。
4、在我处于生气状态时不要说话，或者直到我气消之前，不要说话。
5、不要说一些否定的话。我有拥有自己观点的权力，但是我没有表达它的权力。
6、请总是认为每个人都在尽他们所能做的最大的努力去将他们所能看到的事情做到最好。
7、把自己放在别人的角度，然后尝试去想他们的观点是什么。
8、以自己喜欢被对待的方式去对待别人。

文/王文（本论坛专家）



王文，美国休斯顿大学教育信息技术硕士。赴美前任教中学英语多年. 赴美后经过学习考试成为美国执照教师,拥有包括天才教育,特殊教育, 英语作为第二语言(ESL), 电脑技术应用在内的四个教师执照,在美国小学及高中任教近十年, 目前在美国得州一高中执教.愿借博客这一平台，让更多的人了解真正的美国教育。



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