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RE:【The Missing Piece】《失落的一角》
(2006-04-25 16:53:16)| 分类： ◆他山之玉 |
（二）关于成熟......
Regarding Maturity…
Regarding Maturity…
在这个讲究包装的社会里，我们常禁不住羡慕别人的光鲜华丽的外表，而对自己的欠缺耿耿于怀。
In this society that emphasizes on the packaging, we could
In this society that emphasizes on the packaging, we could
sometimes inevitably envy other people's good looks, and lament about our own imperfectiom.
但就我多年观察，我发现没有一个人的生命是完整无缺的，每个人都少了一样东西。
有人夫妻恩爱月入数十万，却是有严重的不孕症；
有人才貌双全、能干多金，情字路上却是坎坷难行；
有人家财万贯，却是子孙不孝；
有人看似好命，却是一辈子脑袋空空。
But in my years of experience,I have discovered that there's no one life that is perfect, everyone has a lack of something.
Some couples are very loving, monthly salary of 10K+,but they could have problems bearing child.
Some people have the looks and talent, but could have a rough time in relationships.
Some people have lots of money, but they don't have filial children.
Some people look to have a good life, but their brain could be empty all their life.
有人夫妻恩爱月入数十万，却是有严重的不孕症；
有人才貌双全、能干多金，情字路上却是坎坷难行；
有人家财万贯，却是子孙不孝；
有人看似好命，却是一辈子脑袋空空。
But in my years of experience,I have discovered that there's no one life that is perfect, everyone has a lack of something.
Some couples are very loving, monthly salary of 10K+,but they could have problems bearing child.
Some people have the looks and talent, but could have a rough time in relationships.
Some people have lots of money, but they don't have filial children.
Some people look to have a good life, but their brain could be empty all their life.
每个人的生命都被上苍划上了一道缺口，你不想要它，它却如影随形。以前我也痛恨人生中的缺失，但现在我却能宽心接受。
Everyone's life has been desingned with imperfections, you may not want it ,but it will follow you. I used to hate my imperfection, but now i have learnt to accept it with open arms.
Everyone's life has been desingned with imperfections, you may not want it ,but it will follow you. I used to hate my imperfection, but now i have learnt to accept it with open arms.
因为我体认到生命中的缺口，仿如我们背上的一根刺，时时提醒我们谦卑，要懂得怜恤。
Because I understand that the flaw in life is like a spike on our backs, reminding us to be humble and to emphatise with others.
Because I understand that the flaw in life is like a spike on our backs, reminding us to be humble and to emphatise with others.
若没有苦难，我们会骄傲，没有沧桑，我们不会以同理心去安慰不幸的人。我也相信，人生不要太圆满，有个缺口让福气流向别人是很美的一件事。
If there are no hardships, we will be complacent. If there is no depression, we can't emphatise and console those who are less fortunate. I also believe that life can't be too perfect ,having a crack to let happiness flow to others is a beautiful thing.
If there are no hardships, we will be complacent. If there is no depression, we can't emphatise and console those who are less fortunate. I also believe that life can't be too perfect ,having a crack to let happiness flow to others is a beautiful thing.
你不需拥有全部的东西，若你样样俱全，别人吃什么呢？也体认到每个生命都有欠缺，我也不会再去与人作无谓的比较了，反而更能珍惜自己所拥有的一切。
所以，不要再去羡慕别人如何如何，好好数算上天给你的恩典，你会发现你所拥有的绝对比没有的要多出许多。
而缺失的那一部分，虽不可爱，却也是你生命的一部分，接受它且善待它，你的人生会快乐豁达许多。
You don't have to have everything. If you have everything, what's left for the others ?Also recognise that life has flaws,that I will not compare myself with others, instead cherish what you already have.
So, don't go around envying others ,count the blessings that Heaven has bestowed upon you, you will find that there are more things that you have than things that you don't have.
And what you don't have , although not lovable,is very much part of your life, accept and appreciate it ,and your life will be much happier.
如果你是一个蚌，你愿意受尽一生痛苦而凝结一粒珍珠......还是不要珍珠，宁愿舒舒服服的活着？
If you are clam ,Do you want to bear all the pains to produce a pearl...or you don't want the pearl and choose to live comfortably?!
If
如果你是一只老鼠，你突然发觉你已被关进捕鼠笼而你前面有一块香喷喷的蛋糕，这时，你窨是吃还是不吃呢？！
If you are a mouse, You suddenly find yourself captured in a rat trap and in front of you is a piece of delicious cake, do you eat the cake or not?!
If you are a mouse, You suddenly find yourself captured in a rat trap and in front of you is a piece of delicious cake, do you eat the cake or not?!
早期的扑满是陶器，一旦存满了钱，就要被人敲碎......如果有这么一只扑满，一直没有钱投进来，一直瓦全到今天，他就成了贵重的古董......你愿意做哪一种扑满?!
Early piggy banks are made of clay, once it is filled, it has to be broken......If there is such a piggy bank, no money has been put into it ,until today and it has Which piggy bank ,Do you wish to be ?!
Early piggy banks are made of clay, once it is filled, it has to be broken......If there is such a piggy bank, no money has been put into it ,until today and it has Which piggy bank ,Do you wish to be ?!
你每想到一次就记下你的答案......
直到有一天你的答案不再变动......
那就是你成熟了！
Everytime you think of it ,note down your answers...
Until a day when your answers doesn't change...
Then you are mature!
直到有一天你的答案不再变动......
那就是你成熟了！
Everytime you think of it ,note down your answers...
Until a day when your answers doesn't change...
Then you are mature!
文章引用自：http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/54d08a1b010002my
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