看了一本关于儿子的书，Sons (由Blue Mountain Press出版，Gary Moris 编写)，其中的情感如同身受，摘抄于此，且供自己和朋友共享。

A Parent’s Pride  

In Admiration of You, Son 

If someone were to ask me what has been my biggest accomplishment in life, I would lift my head high and speak from my heart with a parent’s pride as I said the words “my son…” I would speak about the good fortune and blessing of having a son who spreads happiness and comfort to all who cross his path; a son who put the concerns of others ahead of his own; a son who has grown from an enchanting young boy into a compassionate, courageous man; a son who has grown up knowing the value of respect and who has earned the admiration of those who know him.

You have so many wonderful qualities that my words to describe them would be endless—much like my pride in you. You have given so much joy to my life, and I am overcome with feelings of tranquility whenever I think about who and what you’ve become. You are my biggest and greatest accomplishment. You have given my life more meaning and happiness than you could ever know. I love you.                  --Andrea Adaire Ficher 

The treasure of a man is not found in the things he owns, or what he’s saved for retirement, or even his accomplishments. The true measure of a man is found in his faith and his heart.

                                                             --Craig Brannon

Words to Help a Son Through Life

No one knows the mysteries of life or its ultimate meaning, but for those who are willing to believe in their dreams and themselves, life is a precious gift in which anything is possible.            --Dena Dilaconi

 Never let go of your hopes and dreams 

Never let go of your hopes, dreamsm and goals. Never lose faith in your power to make the world a better place. 

Go forward with your shoulders back, your head high, and a smile. With your enthusiastic spirit, perseverance, and integrity of character, put your intelligence, talents, and passion into action.

Never let setbacks excuse you from trying again. It often takes many attempts to be a success. Never hold on to the old just because it is comfortable for you; never pursue the new just because you think it will bring you happiness. Incorporate into your life the best of the old, then stretch yourself with new ideas, people, and challenges.

Never let negative people influence you or direct what you do. Always face forward and see your whole life shining bright for you. Never let go of your character, ideals, or activism for the good of this world.

Never let go of the passions that inspire you, guide you, and always smile on you. These passions will lead you to reach your fullest potential. Hold on to them and they will keep you honest,caring, kind, and generous with the finest gifts your heart can give.                                                                --Jacqueline Schiff

If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.

                                                              --Henry David Thoreau

Son, may you meet every challenge you are faced with, recognize every precious opportunity, and be blessed with the knowledge that you have the ability to make every day special. May you have enough material wealth to meet your needs, while never forgetting that the real treasures of life are the loved ones and friends who are invaluable to the end. May you search for serenity and discover it was within you all along.

May you be strong enough to keep your hopes and dreams alive. May you always be gentle enough to understand. May you know that you hold tomorrow within your hands, and that the way there will be shared with the makings of what will be your most wonderful memories. And may you always remember, each step of the way…

You are loved, Son, more than words can ever begin to say.                                  --R.L.Keith

                                                                                                             The Love Between Parents and Sons Lasts a Lifetime

The best feeling in this world is family. From it, we draw love, friendship, moral support, and the fulfillment of every special need within our hearts.                                                                 --Barbara J. Hall

To say “I love you, Son,” seems small and insignificant compared to the deep feelings I have for you. I feel so much more than words can express. Your voice still makes me stop and reflect on how fortunate I am to have you. Your smile and your laughter still cheer me and bring me happiness.

Your success, attitude, and actions have a direct influence on my own. And though there have been times when I’ve tried to distance myself to give you the freedom and space you have needed and craved, I have never been able to. No matter where you are or what you are doing, you are my son—and that makes you a unique and highly important individual who means everything to me.                                                  --Barbara Cage

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The bond between parents and sons is a special one. It remains unchanged by time or distance. It is the purest love—unconditional and true… It is a gift held in the heart and in the soul, and it cannot be taken away or exchanged for another.                                                                    --Stephanie Douglass

My Love Is with You,Son, Wherever You Go in life 

I remember counting your tiny fingers and toes and cradling you in my arms, certain that I would never let you go. But let you go, I did—into the big, wide world, into the life that you would make for yourself. I have been so proud as I’ve watched you grow: proud of the care you show to others, of the love you have for your family, and of the integrity with which you live your life.

I wish I could have held on to you for a little longer. I wish that children didn’t have to grow up and leave home. But I know that you are just as important to other people as you are to me, and I feel lucky to have had you for as long as I did.

Today, my gifts to you no longer come into boxes filled with building blocks or toy trains, but rather in the memories that we share and in the love that keeps growing as the years go by.

May every day bring you a reason to celebrate, may you be surrounded by those you love, and may each day of your life be filled with happiness.

                                   --Lea Walsh