Hi
my name is Kevin Chen and I am currently a freshman at the
University of California at Berkeley.
Throughout my first semester at Berkeley, I was
able to learn a lot about myself and convictions, how to handle
myself, and especially about the nature of others. I do believe
that everyone should have the opportunity to attend a college,
preferably a college where they can be away from their parents and
live on their own for an extended period of time.

College
is a time and place where your son’s or daughter’s horizon of
thinking is greatly broadened. No longer are they constrained to
the same thoughts, styles, and lifestyles that have remained
basically ubiquitous throughout their twelve years in grade
school.
The first time one enters
college, he meets a whole bunch of people from around the country,
especially if he attends a big name school. I have the gracious
opportunity to attend one of the top schools in the nation, so
naturally people from all corners of the Earth to come and learn.
We have students from all over including places like Texas, the
East Coast, Southern California, China, India, Europe, and Africa
to name a few.
The diversity that a campus of this status has
makes way for a whole new and dynamic way of thought that your
child will have to learn. Now he will not hear the same things he
has heard for the first twelve years in grade school; he now hears
completely new perspectives, viewpoints, and opinions on topics
that he never thought he would have to
consider.
By going to a college, especially a large public
university, your child will be introduced to many different
opinions that will shape and mold his way of thinking to be more
open minded about things he’s never heard and even challenge the
things that he felt formerly convicted by.
For example, I am strongly
convicted Christian, but after going to Berkeley, I experienced the
full blow of its liberal atmosphere. My Christian convictions were
challenged and I had to look for answers. Questions that I have
never even considered in the past arose, which forced me to find
answers to the convictions I had. As I searched, I gradually found
more answers, leading to an even stronger faith.

Furthermore, going to college has changed my outlook on even my
major. I entered college pretty confident that I was going to major
in physics. As college life kept going, however, I felt my physics
skills dwindling and my leadership skills increase. I have come to
learn that I can be a very aggressive leader and efficient person.
Even though I greatly enjoy physics and its problem solving, I
discovered that I enjoy leading people even more. So now I am
considering switching my major from physics into operational
research and management.
Secondly, college is a time to get away from our parents. It seems
like especially for today’s younger generation, the kids are raised
in a much easier atmosphere. Sure, schoolwork might be more
difficult, but as for working multiple jobs and taking care of the
house, the children rarely have to worry about that.
For example, food is prepared for us day after
day by our parents. We get picked up by our parents and get to
drive our parent’s car and get to use our parent’s seemingly
inexhaustible amount of money on clothing and other goods. When I
first went to college, I had to forgo some of those
blessings.
Although I am unrightfully more fortunate than
others, I have had to learn how to budget my money better when in college and look for better
alternatives to spend my money more wisely. Many of us are also
pushed by our parents to do well academically. Some students at in
college, even in Berkeley, struggle to make even a passing grade (a
C letter grade) because they begin procrastinating. Without their
parents at their side, their lazy and foolish side emerge, causing
them to slack off and do meaningless things, like party, instead of
working towards the main reason why they’re at college: to get a
valuable (literally $24,000/yr) education. Finally, time has to be
budgeted.
Any college student can tell
you that the days fly by very quickly, that we jump from
appointment to appointment without really slowing down. College has
taught me to enjoy my alone time and put aside time to just
vegetate a little, relax, read, and spend time away from family and
friends. After attending college, one will quickly discover that 24
hours in a day is not enough.

Lastly, when students go to college and leave
the comfort of their private room, there’s one thing that all
students at first look forward to: their roommates. When students
go to college, they often take the dorms, which include sharing a
room with one or two other people, or the apartment alternative,
which also have people living under the same roof as them. One of
the most difficult things in college is to be around people all the
time.
For me personally, socializing can be extremely
tiring; that’s why I need my alone time. Often living under in one
place with new and unfamiliar people their age, students begin
seeing sides of themselves that they never thought would come out.
For example, I used to be very extraverted before I went to
college. However, after attending college, I realized that I love
my alone time and I wish to be alone a lot more than I used
to.

College is definitely a great experience for the
growing young man or woman. It allows the person to come to an
understanding of himself, realize what he needs to improve such as
money management, and how to interact with other
people.
I think college is an opportunity that no young
adult should forgo, as it is a great intermediate period between
grade school and the working life. Not only will it prepare
students academically, but there will also be great experiences
that are going to be priceless in the students’ success and
wisdom.