Courage is the ability to be
with what is, without being a victim of what is. Courage is not an
absence of fear. Do not allow fear to disturb your centre.
Courage is like exploring
the unknown and not being a prisoner of the known. A courageous
person explores the unknown with or without fear or in spite of
fear, whereas a non-courageous person is stopped by fear. Respect
what you know and have courage to explore the unknown. The courage
of a spiritual seeker is different from the courage of a soldier.
The spiritual seeker drops his mind and explores the heart…it is a
flight from the head to the heart…has courage to accept even death
as he knows the art of living involves the art of dying. By
accepting death, he has accepted life in totality.
To accept both life and
death gracefully requires courage. It is an expression of the
higher self. The courage of the lower self is focused on winning
and not accepting failure. The higher self operates from a
different understanding altogether. It views success as God’s grace
and failure as an individual’s own making. Failure is a shadow of
the ego. With this understanding, life becomes magical. The hidden
secrets of life flow in us. One cannot succeed against the whole.
One’s success is the success of the whole. In fact one becomes the
whole.
“You are the fullness.
There is fullness, here is fullness. From the fullness, the
fullness is born. Remove the fullness from the fullness and the
fullness alone remains,” say the Vedas.
Yes, in adventure, courage emerges. Let living be an adventure
in the mystery of life. Life includes both time and beyond time. In
sleep, you are beyond time. Learn to see yourself beyond time.
Lack of adventure makes us
live in cages. Is it not?
A mental cage is mental
imprisonment. A bird feels secure in a cage against its prey but
the cage itself is a trap. It loses the joy of freedom and the
vastness of the sky. The enlightened being soars in the sky of
freedom.
Our mental cages can be
“Self doubt, fear of failure, greed for success, being jealous,
should and should not, focused on the missing...” The adventurous
spirit help us to free ourselves from the mental prison. The mental
prison is an expression of the lower self.
Examples of Courage
Courage comes in many
shapes, sizes and forms. While racing into a burning building to
save lives and helping out a person who is being robbed are
certainly courageous and admirable acts, even smaller occurrences
can count as acts of courage.
For example, confronting a
bully or asking out a secret crush out on a date both require
certain levels of bravery. Therefore, acts full of courage can
happen on the grand scale, but also on the smaller, day to day life
level.
Grand Acts of Courage
Whether through pop
culture, the media or simply living in a world where people have to
be brave and face obstacles, you'll probably find yourself familiar
with some of the following acts of courage:
- Harriet
Tubman leading slaves to freedom on the underground
railroad.
- Rosa
Parks refusing to give up her seat on the bus.
- Martin
Luther King Jr. standing up for equal rights.
- Joan
of Arc facing harsh criticism and burning at the stake for her
beliefs.
- Jesus Christ continuing to follow his faith, beliefs and
mission despite being hanged on a cross, brutally beaten and
attacked.
- The Pilgrims coming to
the United States without any idea of what they were about to
face.
- Anne
Frank and her family living in secret and quiet to hide from
the Nazis.
- The police, firefighters and citizens who rushed into buildings
to save lives on September
11, 2001.
- The people aboard Flight 93 who prevented the terrorists from
attacking the United States Capitol.
-
Charles Lindbergh making the first nonstop flight from New York
to Paris.
- Mother
Teresa living amongst the poorest of the poor and helping them
to thrive, learn and grow.
-
Sir Edmund Hillary's climbing up Mount Everest.
- The American revolutionaries
fighting for their freedom against Britain.
- All those who fought in the Civil War to end
slavery.
- All those who have fought and who fight today for civil rights and
equal rights.
- Women
and men who put their lives and reputations on the line fighting
for voting rights for women.
- People working for peace with global movements such as the Red
Cross, UNICEF and the Peace Corps.
- Military personnel and their families defending the freedom of
the United States.
These acts, and similar
acts, demand great deals of courage. Many of these people put
themselves in harm's way in order to do what is right.
Courage on a Daily Basis
Not all acts of courage
need to be known worldwide to be defined as brave. Here are some
examples of ways to be courageous in daily life.
- Trying a food that you've never tried before.
- Engaging in a new experience.
- Asking someone out on a date.
- Doing something that might be a little risky such as sky diving
or riding a bike for the first time.
- Standing up for a person who is being picked on.
- Asking for a promotion or a raise at work.
- Helping out a person or animal in need, even if it might put
you in a little bit of danger.
- Standing up for yourself.
- Leaving an abusive relationship.
- Taking a stand against an unfair social or economic
practice.
- Doing something by yourself for the first time.
- Making a public presentation about something you believe
in.
- Standing up against racism or prejudice.
- Leaving a job that you don't like and trying to find a new
one.
- Signing up for a program or class that intimidates you.
- Checking out a soup kitchen, volunteer program, etc. to see if
they offer any connections in helping to be more courageous.
Engaging in small acts such
as the ones mentioned above can eventually lead you down the road
toward more global acts of courage. Simply getting involved with a
volunteer opportunity at the local level can open doors to bigger
projects involving human rights or rescue opportunities.
A friend of mine once told
me of a story about an exam paper for a university which contained
the question “what is courage?” and as far as philosophical value
goes I believed that it was a question worth answering.
Courage first and foremost is
an age old term misconceived by the many and understood by only a
few. A man once was said “courage is the ability to continue even
in the presence of fear” and another more blunt man said “courage
is the ability to carry on five minutes more than the man that had
to run away already” and it is these phrases which epitomize the
misconception. To truly understand what courage is one must
underline clearly the few areas which courage is most certainly
not. Courage although widely conceived is not the act of good in
itself, it is not a noble or chivalric gesture because courage can
exist in both good men and bad, is it not courageous that as I
speak men in the far east are killing soldiers by suicide bombings,
ending their own lives in a courageous manner to try and achieve
their cause. And it is this example which my first point is based
on, courage has no connection to noble values, the men that commit
suicide in this manner do it courageously but at the same time is
it not conceived in this side of the world to be evil? To kill a
man with hopes dreams and expectations because he fights for a
cause different from the other but still in one way the same? The
cause to end conflict? This brings me to my second point regarding
courage and that is whether or not it is a primitive instinct, a by
natural law which is bound to us just as much as the instinct to
survive when faced with a dangerous decision, or an instinct such
as the one which drives men into the wars that since time memorial
have existed and will until the final end? The simple answer is no,
or to be more precise it is not completely so. While it is certain
that people are born with an instinct of some kind that encourages
them to go on and continue in the face of a situation greater than
themselves is true but courage is something that is developed. The
truest statement that has ever come to my mind is this, people are
a product of circumstances, another debate would be what makes a
person good or bad which is - without broaching the subject too
deeply - the circumstances that have produced them. For example, a
person who grows up in a shielded environment and who is provided
for is grown that way through their own circumstances, and for this
reason this person – it would be safe to suggest – would perhaps be
less inclined to perform a courageous act, to stay in the face of
danger, in hope that what they have done will meet their cause. On
the other hand a person who has be groomed throughout life in a
manner that is not shielded, a life which constantly asks more of
them, asks them to show courage, in rough areas it is a necessity,
a compulsory skill that when faced with a decision, a dilemma
between pain and suffering and safety, or even between life and
death one would stand and do what is unexpected and courageous in
the hopes of achieving their own cause to be safe. And so it stands
to reason that while everyone who is ever born will be born with
courage not as we know it but as an element to their existence, as
an instinct, courage is something that exists in both good and bad
people, and that it is not only present in a few but it is present
in everyone but to varying degrees and these degrees only vary
because of the circumstances which produce people. To conclude the
question and to provide a description of what courage is and not
what it is not in my own knowledge it is safe to say this. Courage,
is something that exists as blatantly as gravity and yet as
elusively as religion. It is both an instinct and a natural
blessing, courage is only shown when a man or a woman who have,
throughout life, become a product of their circumstances and as
such present themselves in a manner that separates them from the
others who have grown differently because of their circumstances,
courage is when one person continues in the face of total loss and
still keeps going throughout the ordeal to see it through for
better or for worse.