《增广贤文》中英（235）

居视其所亲

《增广贤文》

The Supplemented Collection of Adages

居视其所亲，达视其所举；

富视其所不为，贫视其所不取。

    See whom someone is close with usually, whom he recommends when he himself is promoted, What he does not take  when he is poor, What he does not do when he is rich, and you will know what kind of person he is.

（江湖侠客吴仲湛 辑）