自制力提升大法

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“只要能够自我约束就尽情释放自己!”~麦克贾格尔
It's all right letting yourself go,
as long as you can get yourself back. mick Jagger
新近研究表明利用抽象推理有助于自制力提升。
New research suggests self-control
can be improved using abstract reasoning.
Temptation comes in many forms, often so potent, so animal, that it seems impossible to resist. Eating too much, drinking too much, spending too much or letting the heart rule the head. We get instant messages from deep in the gut that resonate through the mind, trying to dictate our behaviour.
It never ceases to amaze just how different two people's views of exactly the same event can be: one person's freedom fighter is another's terrorist. But the way in which we view people or events isn't just constrained by unchangeable patterns of thought that are set in stone. Dr Fujita and colleagues explored the idea that simple manipulations of how we construe the world can have a direct effect on self-control. Their hunch was that thinking from a more abstract, high-level perspective increases self-control.
Experimenters used the 'student survey' as a cover to manipulate levels of construal. They needed participants to be thinking in either a high-level way (abstract - seeing the whole forest) or a low-level way (concrete - seeing individual trees). They did this by getting participants to think about their level of physical health, but in two different ways:
- 深层解释的情况:要求参与者思考为什么要保持身体健康,然后填写一份表格。很多参与者会这么写:“在学校表现良好。”这让他们想到的是目的,而不是方法——体质健康的根本目的。
- High-level construal condition: participants were asked to fill in a diagram which encouraged them to think about why they maintain good physical health. Participants tended to put answer such as: "To do well in school." This got them thinking about ends rather than means - the ultimate purpose of physical health.
- 浅层解释的情况:与前者相反,这种情况的参与者要求思考他们如何才能保持身体健康。很自然的答案是“锻炼”。换句话说他们关注的是方法,而不是目的,实际的过程。
- Low-level construal condition: in contrast participants in this condition were asked to think about how they maintained their physical health. Naturally they responded with things like: "Go exercise". In other words they focused on means rather than ends, the actual process.
Just before this manipulation of construal level, in a study they were misinformed was separate, participants were told their personality was being tested physiologically through holding a handgrip. This handgrip was designed to be difficult to squeeze together but participants were told to hold on as long as possible. This provided a baseline measurement of their grip strength.
The results confirmed Fujita et al.'s (2006) suspicions. They showed that participants in the low-construal thinking condition (thinking about means rather than ends) held on to the handgrip for, on average, 4.9 seconds less than they had during the baseline measurement.
In contrast those in the high-construal condition held on for 11.1 seconds longer than their baseline measurement. Whether participants were thinking about means or ends had a really significant effect on how long they squeezed the handgrip. Those participants who had been encouraged to think in high-level, abstract terms demonstrated greater self-control in enduring the discomfort of the handgrip in order to receive more accurate personality profiles.
- 似乎更可以避免瞬间快乐的诱惑;
- 准备在健康检查方面做更多投资;
- 基本不会正面评价啤酒和电视那样的诱惑;
Along with this design Fujita et al.
(2006) also carried out other studies using different measures of
self-control and different ways of inducing either high-level or
low-level construal. These produced similar findings. People in the
high-level construal condition were consistently:
- More likely to avoid the temptation of instant gratification.
- Prepared to make a greater investment to learn more about their health status.
- Less likely to evaluate temptations like beer and television positively.
2. 性格和环境如何影响自制力
2. How personality and the situation affect self-control
Self-control is not just affected by how we are thinking at a specific moment, that would be too easy. We have each developed different amounts of self-control. Some people seem to find it easy to resist temptation while others can be relied on to always yield to self-gratification. To a certain extent we have to accept our starting point on the self-control sliding scale and do the best we can with it.
Research reveals that people find it much easier to make decisions that demonstrate self-control when they are thinking about events that are distant in time, for example how much exercise they will do next week or what they will eat tomorrow (Fujita, 2008). Similarly they make much more disciplined decisions on behalf of other people than they do for themselves. People implicitly follow the maxim: do what I say, not what I do.
It's not hard to see the convergence between the idea of 'psychological distance' and high-level construal. Both emphasise the idea that the more psychological or conceptual distance we can put between ourselves and the particular decision or event, the more we are able to think about it in an abstract way, and therefore the more self-control we can exert. It's all about developing a special type of objectivity.
3. How to improve your self-control
Fujita et al.'s (2006) studies, along with other similar findings reported by Fujita (2008), suggest that self-control can be increased by these related ways of thinking:
- 全局处理。意思是关注于木头还不是树木:纵观全局,以及只是全盘计划或者目的的一部分特定动作。比方说:想要吃的健康,就应该重视最终目标,以及每次饮食如何利于或者不利于目标实现的。
- Global processing. This means trying to focus on the wood rather than the trees: seeing the big picture and our specific actions as just one part of a major plan or purpose. For example, someone trying to eat healthily should focus on the ultimate goal and how each individual decision about what to eat contributes (or detracts) from that goal.
- 抽象推理。也就是说避免考虑当前环境中特定细节部分,而考虑全局情况下如何应对——做到冷静处理。有些人想将自制更多地加入训练体系中,可能就不考虑训练的细节,转而重视理想的身体自我的抽象部分或者如何训练身心贯通。
- Abstract reasoning. This means trying to avoid considering the specific details of the situation at hand in favour of thinking about how actions fit into an overall framework - being philosophical. Someone trying to add more self-control to their exercise regime might try to think less about the details of the exercise, and instead focus on an abstract vision of the ideal physical self, or how exercise provides a time to re-connect mind and body.
- 深层分类。意思是考虑深层概念,而不是特定对象。如果过度关注每天进度的细节而忘记最终目标,任何一个长期项目,无论是商业,学术或其他都会陷入困境。将任务或者项目阶段概念化分类会有助于个人或者团队维持他们焦点,从而达到更好的自律。
- High-level categorisation. This means thinking about high-level concepts rather than specific instances. Any long-term project, whether in business, academia or elsewhere can easily get bogged down by focusing too much on the minutiae of everyday processes and forgetting the ultimate goal. Categorising tasks or project stages conceptually may help an individual or group maintain their focus and achieve greater self-discipline.