What does it mean to be a
lover?It is more than just being married to or making love to
someone.Millions of people are married,millions of people have
sex-but few are real lovers.To be a real lover,you must commit to
and participate in a perpetual dance of intimacy with your
partner.
You are a lover
when you appreciate the gift that your partner is,and celebrate
that gift every day.
You are a lover when you
remember that your partner does not belong to you-he or she is on
loan from the universe.
You are a lover when you realize
that nothing that happens between you will be insignificant,that
everything you say in the relationship has the potential to cause
your beloved joy or sorrow,and everything you do will either
strengthen your connection or weaken it.
You are a lover when you
understand all this,and thus wake up each morning filled with
gratitude that you have another day in which to love and enjoy your
partner.
When you have a lover in you
life,you are richly blessed.You have been given the gift of another
person who has chosen to walk beside you.He or she will share your
days and your nights,your bed and your burdens.You lover will see
secret parts of you that no one else sees.He or she will touch
places on your body that no one else touches.Your lover will seek
you out where you have been hiding,and create a haven for you
within safe,loving arms.
Your lover offers you an
abundance of miracles every day.He has the power to delight you
with his smile,his voice,the scent of his neck,the way he moves.She
has the power to banish your loneliness.He has the power to turn
the ordinary into the sublime.She is your doorway to heaven here on
earth.
Barbara De Angelis,Ph.D
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