【见行堂语】

所谓的感情，只是一场交换，一场“我执”与“我执”的较量，所以总是在伤害别人或被人伤害。痛苦的根源不是感情，而是我执，只有逐步放下我执，才能感受到真正的快乐。

The so-called"love",

is no more than an exchange and a competition between one’s self-attachment and another person’s self-attachment.

Therefore, the consequence will always be either hurting others or being hurt by others.

The root cause of suffering is not love but self-attachment.

 Only through gradually letting.