【痛不欲生】〖tòng bù yù shng〗[was so overwhelmed with grief that hardly wished to live; be overwhelmed with sorrow; grieve to the extent of wishing to die]

痛哭流涕心无主

不测之祸妻病故。

欲碎肝胆寸肠断，

生别死离想陪去。

悲痛得不想活下去。形容悲痛到极点。Grief of did not want to live. Describe Grief is to the extreme. 同：悲痛欲绝、痛哭流涕。反：欣喜若狂。