痛苦是用来独自承受的,快乐才是用来分享的
Pain is the thing you should shoulder alone,
and happiness is
the thing to share with
我没有金钱,但我还有朋友
我没有朋友,但我还有家人
我没有家人,但我还有健康
我没有健康,但我还有希望
I
I do not have friends, but I still have family members
I have no family, but I
IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma
Bombeck
I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up
起在北京、在师大的日子~~~~~~

我们习惯了被涂改颜色的生活,
习惯了被捏成适合的形状。
我们习惯了在冷风中跺脚,
习惯了在世界逐渐变热的汤锅里
忘掉自我。
我们习惯了黄昏,习惯了
在没有灯光的房间里谈论
比黑暗更黑的东西。
我们习惯了把身体当作疼痛的冷藏室,
习惯了——把凝缩的愤怒压进
词语的弹药箱。
看了之后沉默、无语、心痛!!!!!!!!