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广州电视台名嘴林海婷 林海婷[1]是广州电视台小有名气的主持人。她活跃荧屏已逾7年,并且还主持广东电台的一个脱口秀节目。一直忙于主持各种特别活动,是一个非常健谈的人。
(TV Host Lin Hai Ting and James Chane)
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她的丈夫Sunny是我的好朋友,
最近为他的新办公室落户珠江新城[2]举办了一个庆祝派对。他的传媒公司承办许多特别活动,很多都和当地政府有关。幸运的是,在超过14年的岁月里,他和妻子在传媒行业都有许多工作是共同完成的。的确,那些有很多共性的伴侣更有几率保持他们的关系长期持久和更为幸福。
我曾见过Sunny顶着重压工作,很多工人问他问题请求指示如何去做,但是Sunny却始终冷静耐心。我从未见过他焦躁忧虑抑或气急败坏。而我组织特别活动的时候,总是担心食物够不够吃,担心装饰和文艺节目以及来宾是否尽兴,有时压力真的很大。但是Sunny却总是能稳坐钓鱼台运筹帷幄。
这就正如我们常说的,情商(情绪商数)[3]对一个人的成功和人生幸福来说比智商(智力商数)[4]要重要得多。那些脾气暴躁的人在人际关系、职场环境处理以及整体人生幸福上都会有诸多麻烦。所以,如果你觉得自己有点急性子的话,就要学会如何控制情绪。耐心是一种美德!
这是我在Sunny的聚会上碰到几个代言模特儿,他们问我是否能帮助他们练习英语口语。我想,如果你能讲英语的话,交朋友还是挺容易的。
译注:
1. 林海婷(Lin Hai
Ting):广州著名节目主持人、资深记者。自1992年开始从事媒体工作,现任广州电台及广州电视台新闻节目主播和新闻记者。Lin Hai Ting background
2. 珠江新城(Zhujiang, New
City):位于广州市天河区,占地6.19平方公里,为广州CBD重要组成部分,统筹金融、贸易、商业、文娱和行政等多种功能。
3. 情商(EQ,Emotional
Intelligence):情商就是情绪商数,是近年来心理学家们提出的与智力和智商相对应的概念。主要是指人在情绪、情感、意志、耐受挫折等方面的品质。
4. 智商(IQ,Intelligence
Quotient):智商就是智力商数,是人们认识客观事物并运用知识解决实际问题的能力。包括多个方面,如观察力、记忆力、想象力、分析判断能力、思维能力、应变能力等。
(Translation done by Ahyu Chen [沉香玉])
Lin Hai Ting is a local celebrity
host for Guangzhou TV. She has been on TV for more than 7 years and
also has a talk show on the Guangdong Radio. She keeps herself
quite busy hosting special events. She is a really good
talker.
Her Husband is my good friend Sunny, who recently held a
celebration party for his new office located in Zhujiang, New City.
His media company holds a lot of special events, many with the
local government. Fortunately him and his wife have a lot in common
working together in the media industry for over 14 years. It is
true that those who have a lot in common have a higher chance of a
long lasting, happier relationship.
I have seen Sunny work under a lot of pressure, with many of his
workers asking him questions and instructions of what to do, but
Sunny is always calm and patient. I have never seen him upset or
out of control. When I have organized special events, I'm always
worried about whether there is enough food to eat, the decorations,
the entertainment and if the guest are happy. It could be really
stressful at times. But Sunny's temperament is always calm and
collective.
It goes to saying that EQ ( Emotional Intelligence) has more to do
with your success and happiness in life than your IQ (Intelligence
Quotient). Those with a short temper have more difficulties in
personal relationships, dealing with job situations, and overall
life happiness. So if you think your temper is on the short side,
make sure you learn how to take control of it. Patience is a
virtue! James Chane
Some spokes models I met at Sunny's celebration. They asked if I
could help them practice their oral English. I think its easy to
make friends when you can speak English.
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