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潘石屹:Happiness is something can be shared

(2008-12-25 13:12:28)
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分类: 人文艺术

中央电视台《今日说法》栏目曾经采访过我,让我谈谈什么是幸福。我谈了一遍,记者觉得不满意,让我再谈一遍。我再谈一遍,记者还是觉得不满意,就举了几个例子启发我,比如谁在谈到幸福的时候说,幸福就是柴米油盐酱醋茶,幸福就是老百姓平常的日子。又比如谁在谈幸福时说,老婆怕他发胖,不让他吃肥肉,昨天老婆不在家,他吃了一顿红烧肉,感觉到很幸福……

A journalist from CCTV Legal Report once had an interview with me, letting me talk about what happiness was. I did, but he/she wasn’t satisfied with what I said. So I said again, he/she was still not satisfied. In order to inspire me, he/she told me some examples. For example, someone may say happiness was firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, and common people’s common days; while another person may say he felt very happy after eating a meal with bouilli when his wife was not at home, because his wife would not let him eat for keeping fit.

但这些好像都不是我自己的感受,我对这位记者说,单纯的物质不一定能带来幸福。我记得有本杂志采访了美国华尔街最有钱的100个老板,超过90个人觉得自己不幸福,同时这本杂志又采访了100名露宿街头的印度人,超过90个人说他们很幸福。我想,幸福与物质有点关系,但关系不是很大;柴米油盐酱醋茶、红烧肉与幸福也有点关系,但关系不是很大,我觉得更重要的是精神感受,可分享的。

But these were not my own feelings, I told him/her. Onefold substance can not bring happiness. I remembered that a magazine had interviewed 100 richest bosses in Wall Street, more than 90 of which thought they were not happy. At the same time, the magazine interviewed 100 Indians who could only sleep on the street, more than 90 of which said they were happy. So I think, happiness indeed has relationships with substance, but not much. Firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, tea and bouilli also have relationships with happiness, but also not much. For happiness, I think mental comfortableness is more important and can be shared.


这位记者还是反复地启发我,一定要让我讲一个关于幸福的故事和幸福的时刻。

The journalist kept on inspiring me, letting me tell a story and a moment of happiness.


我说,当我在海边骑着自行车,戴着MP3听音乐时,有幸福的感觉。前几天,又听了一遍《同桌的你》,它把我带回了中学时光,这时刻我也感觉到幸福。的确,哪怕我再疲惫,再烦躁,只要有音乐就能让我安静下来,尤其是莫扎特的音乐,每一首我都喜欢,我听莫扎特音乐的时候,就能感觉到幸福。所以我觉得幸福与精神的关系可能更大一点。要让人们获得幸福就离不开信仰,信仰才是幸福真正的源泉。

When I rode a bike by the seaside and listened to the music in my MP3(MPEG Audio Layer3), I felt happy. Just a few days ago, I listened again to the song You: My Desk-mate. It brought me back to my middle school time. At that moment, I felt happy. No matter how tired and annoyed, music can keep me calm, especially Mozart’s music. I like every piece of music of Mozart. When I listened to his music, I felt happy. So I think happiness maybe have more relationship with spirit. People can not acquire happiness without faith, because faith is the real fountain of happiness. I said.


记者仍然觉得不满意,问我能不能再讲一个具体的故事。我说,前几天,我见到了我的中学同学,我们在一起吃饭,饭桌上还有许多人。看到这位同学,我就回想起我们一起度过的中学时代。那时,我们20多个学生住在一间宿舍中,冬天没有暖气,也没有炉子取暖,同学们就在床板上铺上厚厚的麦草来取暖,到了春暖花开的季节,再把麦草清理干净。那时,床板上有许多臭虫,每天晚上我们都被咬得全身是包,有时我们用竹棍或笔去戳床板的每一个裂缝,裂缝里都会有血流出来。有一天,我实在忍受不了臭虫的折磨,就带了两毛钱和一个空瓶子去公社的生活资料门市部,想买一点敌敌畏,但这个门市部敌敌畏只能整瓶销售,不零卖。正在发愁时,正好有一位解放军叔叔来买一瓶敌敌畏。我就问他能不能卖给我一点,这位解放军说可以,但要注意安全。于是他给我分了一些敌敌畏,但坚持不收我的钱,白送给我了。回到宿舍后,我先在床板上撒了一些,等上完课回来,床板上一大片的臭虫都变软了,跑不动了。从那天起,我睡上了安稳觉,宿舍的同学们也都睡上了安稳觉。这次同学来到北京,一起吃饭的人都在不断地讲话,谁谁是什么“长”,谁谁是什么“总”。带“长”的都是当官的,官似乎都做得很大;带“总”的都是赚钱的,谈到钱的数目也都很大。但在我的脑海中出现的一直是那两毛钱和那一小瓶敌敌畏。

The journalist was still unsatisfied and asked if I could tell him/her a specific story. I saw my classmate of middle school the other day. We ate together with some other people in a table. I said. Seeing my classmate reminded me of our middle school time. At that time, we 20 students lived in a dormitory without heating and furnace. In order to warm ourselves, my classmates put lots of wheat straw, which will be cleaned up when spring comes, to the bed board. Every night we would be bit all over our bodies because there were lots of bedbugs on the bed board. Sometimes we would stab into the crack of our bed boards by using bamboos and pencils, then blood would be flowed out from the crack. One day, I really couldn’t put up with the annoying bedbugs, so I brought two Mao and an empty bottle to the commune grocery to buy some DDVP (a highly volatile organophosphate, widely used as a fumigant to control household pests, in public health, and protecting stored product from insects). But the grocery sold a whole bottle only instead of retailing. A soldier was just coming into the grocery to buy DDVP when I was worrying. I asked him if he could sell some DDVP to me. He said yes and told me to be careful. He distributed some DDVP to me, insisting on charging me no money. When I came back to the dormitory, I sprinkled it to the bed board. After class, I returned to the dormitory and found all the bedbugs lying on the bed board, couldn’t move. From that day on, my classmates and I could sleep very well. This time when classmates came to Beijing, we ate together and talked about who was the superior and who was the general manager. The superior refers to the people who works in the government and are in high positions; while the general master refers to the people who have earned lots of money. But what kept on emerging in my mind were the two Mao and the bottle of DDVP.


回忆也许也是一种幸福。

Recollection is a kind of happiness, maybe.

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