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孩子,我喜欢看你打球
(2013-11-04 10:42:20)
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体育高尔夫青少年孩子我喜欢看你打球 |
分类： 心灵鸡汤 |
If you’re a parent like me,
you only want the best for your kids. When they play a sport, we
can't wait to chime in with words of wisdom. I
can think of many occasions when I encouraged, guided, complimented
and tried to offer suggestions for improvement after watching my
kids perform. Let's face it, we all want the best
for our kids and our parental instinct is to help, or so we think.
I recently read an article
from an Australian newspaper that said the biggest thing that kids
hate after their sport is the drive home with their parents.
It’s the number one reason why they quit the
sport they play. Wow. The
constant reliving and overanalyzing of the game is turning our kids
away, despite our best intentions.
Bruce E Brown and Rob Miller
from Proactive Coaching LLC have done more research on what kids
want from their sport parents than anyone. They
asked college athletes what their parents said that made them feel
great and encouraged them to play. The
overwhelming response? These six
words:
" I love to watch you play
"
Those simple words really
sum it up. As a golf coach, I have never heard a
parent say that about their kid. Instead, I often
get parents that analyze everything their child does.
They have stats, swing videos, comparisons to the
best in the world and advice on what they believe their child
should be doing.
I often watch my children
play sports just like you do and I’ve noticed them looking for me
during the game. At times, they’re doing
everything they can do get my attention and look for signs of my
approval, so much so that they often take their focus away from
what they’re doing. I have now realized myself
that these words can set them free. They can just
play and enjoy every second…and so can
I.
Those six simple words might
be the secret to your child’s life long passion.
So next time you’re about to offer up another
observation from the sidelines, step back and say " I love to watch
you play.”
翻译如下:
我最近读到一篇文章，从澳大利亚报纸说孩子恨他们的运动后最重要的事情是与他们的父母赶回家。它的头号原因，他们退出的运动，他们玩。哇。不断重温和overanalyzing的游戏把我们的孩子，尽管我们最好的意图。
布鲁斯•布朗和罗布•米勒从主动的教练LLC做更多的研究，从他们的运动的父母比任何人都希望孩子。他们问他们的父母说，让他们感觉好极了，并鼓励他们发挥大学生运动员。反应热烈？这一句话：
“我喜欢看你打球”
那些简单的话其实总结起来。作为一个高尔夫教练，我从来没有听说过一个家长说，他们的孩子。相反，我经常得到父母，分析他们的孩子做的一切。他们有统计，挥杆视频，他们相信他们的孩子应该做的世界上最好的比较和建议。
我经常看着我的孩子玩，就像你做的运动，我已经注意到他们在比赛期间找我。有时候，他们正在做的一切，他们可以做我的注意，并期待我批准的迹象，以至于他们往往把自己的注意力从他们在做什么。我现在已经意识到自己说这些话可以设置他们自由。他们只是可以玩，享受每一秒......等都可以
这一句简单的话，可能会是你孩子的终身激情的秘密。因此，下一次你提供了另一个观察从场边，后退一步，说：“我喜欢看你打球”
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