Wow, what an honor. I always wondered whatthis would feel
like.
So eight years ago, I got the worst careeradvice of my
life. I had a friend tell
me, "Don't worry abouthow much you like the work
you're doing now. It's all about just buildingyour
resume."
And I'd just come back from living in Spainfor a
while, and I'd joined this Fortune 500 company. I
thought,"This is fantastic. I'm going to have big
impact on the world." Ihad all these ideas. And
within about two months, I noticed at about
10amevery morning I had this strange urge to want
to slam my head through themonitor of my
computer. I don't know if anyone's ever felt
that. AndI noticed pretty soon after that that all
the competitors in our space hadalready automated
my job role. And this is right about when I got
thissage advice to build up my resume.
Well, as I'm trying to figure
out whattwo-story window I'm going to jump out of
and change things up, I readsome altogether
different advice from Warren Buffett, and he
said, "Takingjobs to build up your resume is the
same as saving up sex for old age."
And I heard that, and that was all
Ineeded. Within two weeks, I was out of there, and
I left with oneintention: to find something that I
could screw up. That's how tough itwas. I wanted
to have some type of impact. It didn't matter what it
was.
And I found pretty quickly that I
wasn'talone: it turns out that over 80 percent of
the people around don'tenjoy their
work. I'm guessing this room is
different, but that's theaverage that Deloitte has
done with their studies. So I wanted to findout,
what is it that sets these people apart, the
people who do thepassionate, world-changing
work, that wake up inspired every
day, andthen these people, the other 80
percent who lead these lives of
quietdesperation.
So I started to interview all these peopledoing this
inspiring work, and I read books and did case
studies,300 booksaltogether on purpose and career and all
this, totally justself-immersion, really for the
selfish reason of -- I wanted to find thework that
I couldn't not do, what that was for
me.
But as I was doing this, more and morepeople started to
ask me, "You're into this career
thing. Idon't like my job. Can we sit down for
lunch?" I'd say,"Sure." But I would have to warn
them, because at this point, myquit rate was also
80 percent. Of the people I'd sit down with for
lunch,80 percent would quit their job within two
months. I was proud ofthis, and it wasn't that I
had any special magic. It was that I would askone
simple question. It was, "Why are you doing the
work that you'redoing?" And so often their answer
would be, "Well, becausesomebody told me I'm
supposed to." And I realized that so many
peoplearound us are climbing their way up this
ladder that someone tells them toclimb, and it
ends up being leaned up against the wrong wall, or
nowall at all.
The more time I spent around these peopleand saw this
problem, I thought, what if we could create a
community, aplace where people could feel like
they belonged and that it was OK to dothings
differently, to take the road less traveled, where
that wasencouraged, and inspire people to
change? And that later became whatI now call Live
Your Legend, which I'll explain in a little
bit. Butas I've made these discoveries, I noticed
a framework of really threesimple
things that all these different passionate
world-changers have incommon, whether you're a
Steve Jobs or if you're just, you know, theperson
that has the bakery down the street. But you're
doing work thatembodies who you are. I want to
share those three with you, so we can usethem as a
lens for the rest of today and hopefully the rest
of our life.
The first part of this three-steppassionate work
framework is becoming a self-expert and
understandingyourself, because if you don't know
what you're looking for, you'renever going to find
it. And the thing is that no one is going to do
thisfor us. There's no major in university on
passion and purpose and career. Idon't know how
that's not a required double major, but don't even
get mestarted on that. I mean, you spend more time
picking out a dorm room TVset than you do you
picking your major and your area of study. Butthe
point is, it's on us to figure that out, and we
need a framework, weneed a way to navigate through this.
And so the first step of our compass isfinding out what
our unique strengths are. What are the things that
wewake up loving to do no matter what, whether
we're paid or we're not paid,the things that people thank us
for? And the Strengths Finder 2.0 is abook and
also an online tool. I highly recommend it for
sorting out whatit is that you're naturally good at.
And next, what's our framework or ourhierarchy for making
decisions? Do we care about the people, our
family,health, or is it achievement, success, all
this stuff? We have tofigure out what it is to
make these decisions, so we know what our soul
ismade of, so that we don't go selling it to some
cause we don't give a shitabout.
And then the next step is our
experiences. Allof us have these experiences. We
learn things every day, every minute aboutwhat we
love, what we hate, what we're good at, what we're
terrible at. Andif we don't spend time paying
attention to that and assimilating
thatlearning and applying it to the rest of our
lives, it's all for nothing. Everyday, every week,
every month of every year I spend some time
justreflecting on what went right, what went
wrong, and what do I want torepeat, what can I
apply more to my life.
And even more so than that, as you seepeople, especially
today, who inspire you, who are doing things where
yousay "Oh God, what Jeff is doing, I want to be
like him." Whyare you saying that? Open up a
journal. Write down what it is about themthat
inspires you. It's not going to be everything
about their life,butwhatever it is, take note on
that, so over time we'll have this repositoryof
things that we can use to apply to our life and
have a more passionateexistence and make a better
impact. Because when we start to putthese things
together, we can then define what success actually
means tous, and without these different parts of
the compass, it's impossible. Weend up in the
situation -- we have that scripted life that
everybody seemsto be living going up this ladder to
nowhere.
It's kind of like in Wall Street 2, ifanybody saw
that, the peon employee asks the big Wall Street
banker CEO, "What'syour number? Everyone's got a
number, where if they make this money,they'll
leave it all."He says, "Oh, it's simple.
More." Andhe just smiles. And
it's the sad state of most of the
people thathaven't spent time understanding what
matters for them, who keep reachingfor something
that doesn't mean anything to us, but we're doing
it becauseeveryone said we're supposed to. But
once we have this framework together, wecan start
to identify the things that make us come
alive. You know, beforethis, a passion could come
and hit you in the face, or maybe in yourpossible
line of work, you might throw it away because you
don't have away of identifying it. But once you
do, you can see something that'scongruent with my
strengths, my values, who I am as a
person, so I'mgoing to grab ahold of this, I'm
going to do something with it, and I'mgoing to
pursue it and try to make an impact with it.
And Live Your Legend and the movement
we'vebuilt wouldn't exist if I didn't have this
compass to identify, "Wow,this is something I want
to pursue and make a difference with." If wedon't
know what we're looking for, we're never going to find
it, but oncewe have this framework, this
compass, then we can move on to what's next-- and
that's not me up there -- doing the impossible and
pushing ourlimits. There's two reasons why people don't do
things. One is they tellthemselves they can't do
them, or people around them tell them they can'tdo
them. Either way, we start to believe
it. Either we give up, or wenever start in the
first place.
The things is, everyone was impossibleuntil somebody did
it. Every invention, every new thing in the
world, peoplethought were crazy at
first. Roger Bannister and the four-minute mile,
itwas a physical impossibility to break the
four-minute mile in a foot race untilRoger
Bannister stood up and did it. And then what
happened? Twomonths later, 16 people broke the
four-minute mile. The things that wehave in our
head that we think are impossible are often just
milestoneswaiting to be accomplished if we can
push those limits a bit. And Ithink this starts
with probably your physical body and fitness more
thananything, because we can control that. If you
don't think you can run amile, you show yourself
you can run a mile or two, or a marathon, orlose
five pounds, or whatever it is, you realize that
confidence compounds andcan be transferred into
the rest of your world.
And I've actually gotten into the habit ofthis a little
bit with my friends. We have this little group. We
go onphysical adventures, and recently, I found
myself in a kind of precariousspot. I'm terrified
of deep, dark, blue water. I don't know ifanyone's
ever had that same fear ever since they watched
Jaws 1, 2, 3 and4 like six times when I was a
kid. But anything above here, if it'smurky, I can
already feel it right now.I swear there's something in
there. Evenif it's Lake Tahoe, it's fresh water,
totally unfounded fear,ridiculous, butit's
there. Anyway, three years ago I find myself on
this tugboat rightdown here in the San Francisco
Bay. It's a rainy, stormy, windy day, andpeople
are getting sick on the boat, and I'm sitting
there wearing awetsuit, and I'm looking out the
window in pure terror thinking I'm aboutto swim to
my death. I'm going to try to swim across the
Golden Gate. Andmy guess is some people in this
room might have done that before. I'msitting
there, and my buddy Jonathan, who had talked me into
it, he comesup to me and he could see the state I
was in. And he says, "Scott,hey man, what's the
worst that could happen? You're wearing a
wetsuit.You're not going to sink. And If you can't
make it, just hop on one of the20 kayaks. Plus, if
there's a shark attack, why are they going to pick
you overthe 80 people in the water?" So thanks,
that helps. He's like,"But really, just have fun
with this. Good luck." And he divesin, swims off.
OK.
Turns out, the pep talk totally worked, andI felt this
total feeling of calm, and I think it was because
Jonathan was13 years old.
And of the 80 people swimming that
day, 65of them were between the ages of nine and
13. Think how you would haveapproached your world
differently if at nine years old you found out
youcould swim a mile and a half in 56-degree water
from Alcatraz to SanFrancisco. What would you have
said yes to?What would you have not givenup on? What would you have
tried? As I'm finishing this swim, I get toAquatic
Park, and I'm getting out of the
water and of course half thekids are already
finished, so they're cheering me on and they're
allexcited. And I got total popsicle head, if
anyone's ever swam in theBay,and I'm trying to just thaw my face
out, and I'm watching people finish. AndI see this
one kid, something didn't look right. And he's
just flailinglike this. And he's barely able to
sip some air before he slams his headback
down. And I notice other parents were watching
too, and I swearthey were thinking the same thing
I was: this is why you don't letnine-year-olds
swim from Alcatraz. This was not
fatigue. All of asudden, two parents run up and
grab him, and they put him on theirshoulders, and
they're dragging him like this, totally
limp. And thenall of a sudden they walk a few more
feet and they plop him down in
hiswheelchair. And he puts his fists up in the
most insane show of victoryI've ever seen. I can
still feel the warmth and the energy on this
guy whenhe made this
accomplishment. I had seen him earlier that day in
hiswheelchair. I just had no idea he was going to
swim. I mean, where ishe going to be in 20
years?How many people told him he couldn't do that, thathe would
die if tried that?
You prove people wrong, you prove
yourselfwrong, that you can make little
incremental pushes of what youbelieve is
possible. You don't have to be the fastest
marathoner in theworld, just your own
impossibilities, to accomplish those, and itstarts
with little bitty steps. And the best way to do
this is tosurround yourself with passionate
people. The fastest things to do thingsyou don't
think can be done is to surround yourself with
people alreadydoing them.
There's this quote by Jim Rohn and it
says. "Youare the average of the five people you
spend the most time with." Andthere is no bigger
lifehack in the history of the world from getting
whereyou are today to where you want to be than
the people you choose to put inyour corner. They
change everything, and it's a proven fact. In
1898,Norman Triplett did this study with a bunch of
cyclists, and he wouldmeasure their times around
the track in a group, and also
individually. Andhe found that every time the
cyclists in the group would cycle faster. Andit's
been repeated in all kinds of walks of life since
then, and it provesthe same thing over
again, that the people around you matter,
andenvironment is everything. But it's on you to
control it, because it cango both ways. With 80
percent of people who don't like the work theydo,that means most
people around us, not in this room, but everywhere
else, areencouraging complacency and keeping us
from pursuing the things that matter tous so we
have to manage those surroundings.
I found myself in this situation
-- personalexample, a couple years
ago. Has anyone ever had a hobby or a passion
theypoured their heart and soul into, unbelievable
amount of time, and they sobadly want to call it a
business, but no one's paying attention and
itdoesn't make a dime? OK, I was there for four
years trying to build thisLive Your Legend
movement to help people do work that they
genuinely caredabout and that inspired them, and I
was doing all I could, and therewere only three
people paying attention, and they're all right
there: mymother, father and my wife,
Chelsea. Thank you guys for the
support.
And this is how badly I wanted it, it grewat zero percent
for four years, and I was about to shut it down,
and rightabout then, I moved to San Francisco and
started to meet some prettyinteresting people who
had these crazy lifestyles of
adventure, ofbusinesses and websites and
blogs that surrounded their passions andhelped
people in a meaningful way. And one of my friends,
now, he has afamily of eight, and he supports his whole
family with a blog that hewrites for twice a
week. They just came back from a month in Europe,
allof them together. This blew my mind. How does
this even exist? And Igot unbelievably inspired by
seeing this, and instead of shutting it down,I
decided, let's take it seriously. And I did
everything I could to spendmy time, every waking
hour possible trying to hound these guys, hangingout and having
beers and workouts, whatever it was. And after
four yearsof zero growth, within six months of
hanging around these people, thecommunity at Live
Your Legend grew by 10 times. In another 12
months, itgrew by 160 times. And today over 30,000
people from 158 countries useour career and
connection tools on a monthly basis. And those
people havemade up that community of passionate
folks who inspired that possibilitythat I dreamed
of for Live Your Legend so many years
back.
The people change everything, and this iswhy
-- you know, you ask what was going
on. Well, for four years, Iknew nobody in this
space, and I didn't even know it existed, that
peoplecould do this stuff, that you could have
movements like this. Andthen I'm over here in San
Francisco, and everyone around me was doing
it. Itbecame normal, so my thinking went from how
could I possibly do this tohow could I possibly
not. And right then, when that happens, that
switchgoes on in your head, it ripples across your
whole world. And withouteven trying, your
standards go from here to here. You don't need to
changeyour goals. You just need to change your
surroundings. That's it, andthat's why I love
being around this whole group of people, why I go
toevery TED event I can, and watch them on my iPad
on the way to work,whatever it is. Because this is
the group of people that inspirespossibility. We
have a whole day to spend together and plenty more.
To sum things up, in terms of these
threepillars, they all have one thing in common
more than anything else. Theyare 100 percent in
our control. No one can tell you you can't learn
aboutyourself. No one can tell you you can't push
your limits and learnyour own impossible and push
that. No one can tell you you can't
surroundyourself with inspiring people or get away
from the people who bring youdown. You can't
control a recession. You can't control getting
firedor getting in a car accident. Most things are
totally out of our hands. Thesethree things are
totally on us, and they can change our whole world
if wedecide to do something about it.
And the thing is, it's starting to happenon a widespread
level. I just read in Forbes, the US Government
reportedfor the first time in a month where more
people had quit their jobs thanhad been laid
off. They thought this was an anomaly, but it's
happenedthree months straight. In a time where
people claim it's kind of a
toughenvironment, people are giving a middle
finger to this scripted life, thethings that
people say you're supposed to do, in exchange for
things thatmatter to them and do the things that inspire
them.
And the thing is, people are waking up tothis
possibility, that really the only thing that
limits possibility nowis imagination. That's not a
cliché anymore. I don't care what it isthat you're
into, what passion, what hobby. If you're into
knitting, youcan find someone who is killing it
knitting, and you can learn from them.It's
wild. And that's what this whole day is about, to
learn from thefolks speaking, and we profile these
people on Live Your Legend every day, becausewhen
ordinary people are doing the extraordinary, and we can be around
that, itbecomes normal. And this
isn't about being Gandhi or Steve Jobs, doingsomething
crazy. It's just about doing something that
matters to you, andmakes an impact that only you
can make.
Speaking of Gandhi, he was a
recoveringlawyer, as I've heard the
term, and he was called to a greater
cause,something that mattered to him, he couldn't
not do. And he has thisquote that I absolutely
live by."First they ignore you, then they laugh
atyou, then they fight you, then you
win."
Everything was impossible until somebodydid
it. You can either hang around the people who tell
you it can't bedone and tell you you're stupid for
trying, or surround yourself withthe people who
inspire possibility, the people who are in this
room. BecauseI see it as our responsibility to
show the world that what's seen asimpossible can
become that new normal. And that's already
starting tohappen. First, do the things that
inspire us, so we can inspire otherpeople to do
the things that inspire them. But we can't find
that unlesswe know what we're looking
for. We have to do our work on
ourselves, beintentional about that, and make
those discoveries. Because I imagine aworld where
80 percent of people love the work they do. What
would thatlook like? What would the innovation be
like? How would you treat thepeople around
you? Things would start to change.
And as we finish up, I have just onequestion to ask you
guys, and I think it's the only question that
matters. Andit's what is the work you can't not
do? Discover that, live
it, notjust for you, but for everybody around
you, because that is what starts tochange the
world. What is the work you can't not
do?
Thank you guys.
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