采访上帝

“是的,如果您有时间的話。” 我说。
上帝微笑了,笑容通过他的胡须绽开,说:“我时间的名字叫永恒,足足可以做任何事情。你心里有什麽问题想问我?”
“对您来说是没有新鲜的提问的。人类让您感到最惊奇的事情是什麽呢?”
上帝回答道:“人类在做孩子的时候感到无聊,盼望着长大,长大后又向往着返回童年;他们浪费自己的健康去赢得个人的财富,然后又浪费自己的财富去重建自身的健康;他们焦虑地憧憬未来,忘记了眼前的生活,活得既不是为了现在也不是为了将来;他们活得似乎永远不会死,他们死得也好像从来没活过…”
上帝握着我的手,我们一阵沉默。过了好长一段时间,我说:“我可以再问您一个问题吗?”
上帝用微笑回答了我。
“作为天父,在新的一年里您会要求您的子民做什么?”
“去学习人不能强迫别人爱自己,能做的是让自己接受爱;
去了解信誉需要多年的努力去建立,但几秒钟就可以毁掉;
去懂得最有价值的不是他们生活中拥有的东西,而是他们生活里的人;
去学会把自己和别人攀比是不好的,比上不足比下总是有余;
去学知富有的人不是他的财产最多,而是他对生活的要求最少;
去学会应该端正他们的态度,否则他们的态度会控制他们;
去了解深深地伤害我们所爱的人只需要几秒钟,然而要愈合这个伤口需要许多年;
去通过宽恕的行为学习饶恕。
去明白有很多人关爱着他们,只是这些人不懂得如何表达自己的情感;
去了解钱可以买万物,就是买不到幸福;
去懂得在某些时候他们有资格愤怒,但愤怒本身没有给他们权力让身边的人不安;
去学习伟大的梦想不需要有伟大的翅膀,有落地的齿轮才能使梦想成真;
去了解真正的朋友非常稀罕,找到了的人找到了真正的财富;
去懂得自己是守住的言语的主人、脱口的奴隶;
去懂得种什么收什么,如果散播流言蜚语他们就收获钩心斗角,如果种植爱心他们就收获欢乐;
去学会真正的幸福不是实现自己的目标,而是满足于所达到的成就;
去得知幸福是一种决定,他们决定为自己是谁自己有什么快乐地活,或为自己所没有的东西羡慕妒嫉地死;
去明白两个人看同样的事情会看到完全不同的东西;
去学到那些能诚实地面对自己、不担心后果的人,人生之路能走得很远;
去了解尽管有时可能认为自己无能为力,但是当一位朋友同他们一起挥泪的时候,他们能找到生活的勇气去抚平伤痛;
去懂得试图抓住所爱的人,所爱的人会推开你;给所爱的人以自由,他们会永远在你的左右。
去学习尽管爱这个字含义很广,滥用这个字会失去她的价值;
去明白他们永远不能用特殊的举动使我爱他们,我爱人类不需要理由;
去认识到他们和我最靠近的距离是“祈祷者的距离”。
Interview
"If you
have the time," I said.
He smiled
through His beard and said: "My time is called eternity and is
enough to do everything; what questions do you have in mind to ask
me?"
"None
that are new to you. What's the one thing that surprises you most
about mankind?"
He
answered: "That they get bored of being children, are in a rush to
grow up, and then long to be children again. That they lose their
health to make money and then lose their money to restore their
health. That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget
the present, such that they live neither for the present nor the
future. That they live as if they will never die, and they die as
if they never had never lived..."
His hands
took mine and we were silent. After a long period, I said, "May I
ask you another question?"
He
replied with a smile.
"As a
Father, what would you ask your children to do for the new
year?"
"To learn
that they cannot make anyone love them. What they can do is to let
themselves be loved.
To learn
that it takes years to build trust, and a few seconds to destroy
it.
To learn
that what is most valuable is not what they have in their lives,
but who they have in their lives.
To learn
that it is not good to compare themselves to others. There will be
others better or worse than they
are.
To learn
that it is not good to compare themselves to others. There will be
others better or worse than they are.
To
learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one
who needs the least.
To learn
that they should control their attitudes, otherwise their attitudes
will control them.
To learn
that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in persons
we love, and that it takes many years to heal
them.
To learn
to forgive by practicing
forgiveness.
To learn
that there are persons that love them dearly, but simply do not
know how to show their feelings.
To learn
that money can buy everything but
happiness.
To learn
that while at times they may be entitled to be upset, that does not
give them the right to upset those around
them.
To learn
that great dreams do not require great wings, but a landing gear to
achieve.
To learn
that true friends are scarce, he/she who has found one has found a
true treasure.
To learn
that they are masters of what they keep to themselves and slaves of
what they say.
To learn
that they shall reap what they plant; if they plant gossip they
will harvest intrigues, if they plant love they will harvest
happiness.
To learn
that true happiness is not to achieve their goals but to learn to
be satisfied with what they already
achieved.
To learn
that happiness is a decision. They decide to be happy with what
they are and have, or die from envy and jealousy of what they
lack.
To learn
that two people can look at the same thing and see something
totally different.
To learn
that those who are honest with themselves without considering the
consequences go far in life.
To learn
that even though they may think they have nothing to give, when a
friend cries with them, they find the strength to appease the
pain.
To learn
that by trying to hold on to love ones, they very quickly push them
away; and by letting go of those they love, they will be side by
side forever.
To learn
that even though the word "love" has many different meanings, it
loses value when it is overstated.
To learn
that they can never do something extraordinary for Me to love them;
I simply do.
To learn that the shortest distance they could be from Me is the
"the distance of a prayer."