加载中…童心犹在不老翁
(2023-03-15 19:40:58) 古稀老人赛童年
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摘自：罗素
在老年时期，心理上有两大威胁值得防范。其中之一就是对往事的过分关注。人不应该活在回忆里，不应该活在对过往的懊悔中，不应该活在对已故好友的悲痛中。相反，人应该向前看，其实还有很多事等着我们去做。但这并不容易，一个人过去的点点滴滴是逐渐累积的重担。我们很容易这么想：现在回首过去，感情不再清晰，思维不再敏锐。如果这是真的，我们应该忘记；如果我们忘记了，可能这未必是真的。
Psychologically there are two dangers
to be guarded against in old age. One of these is undue absorption
in the past. It does not do to live in memories, in regrets for the
good old days, or in sadness about friends who are dead. One's
thoughts must be directed to the future, and to things about which
there is something to be done. This is not always easy; one's own
past is a gradually increasing weight. It is easy to think to
oneself that one's emotions used to be more vivid than they are,
and one's mind more keen. If this is true it should be forgotten,
and if it is forgotten it will probably not be
true.
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