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泪水无端地流《丁尼生》

(2023-01-09 23:11:59)

泪水无端地流

我不知道为了什么

从某种神圣而绝望的深渊

泪水涌上心头汇聚眼中

注视着那秋天幸福的原野

思索着那一去不返的时光

像洒在船帆上的第一缕

阳光那般清新明亮

从幽冥中带回我们的亲友

像铺在船帆上最后一抹

残阳那般忧郁悲伤

带着我们所有的爱沉入天际

如此悲伤如此清新

那一去不返的时光

啊夏日里幽暗的黎明

那么哀伤那么陌生

睡眼朦胧的鸟儿

将最早的歌声

送入垂死的耳畔

窗格渐渐明亮

将光茫送入垂死的眼睛

那么哀伤那么陌生

那一去不返的时光

像死后记忆中的

亲吻那般亲切

像别人唇上的

无望的幻想那般甜蜜

像爱一般深沉

像初恋一般深沉

悔恨而疯狂

我生命中的死亡啊

那一去不返的时光

老年人并非是孤独的人群

人们都以为老年人孤身一人的时候更多，所以更寂寞，但事实也许不是这样。

美国犹他州杨百翰大学的心理学教授朱莉安娜·郝特-朗斯达的研究指出，实际上，青少年和青年才是最孤独的。

郝特-朗斯达和她的同事们分析了70项研究后发现，65岁以下人群患孤独相关疾病的风险比65岁以上人群更高。

此外，美国国家社会生活、健康和老龄化项目称，只有30%的老年人经常感到孤独。

虽然老年人也许大部分时间都是孤身一人，但这不意味着他们不喜欢那样的状态。

事实上，人们在有人相伴时也会感到孤独。很多已婚人士也会觉得孤独。

郝特-朗斯达向《纽约时报》透露：“未婚是一个重大风险，不过，并不是所有婚姻都幸福。我们必须考虑婚姻的质量，不能只看结婚与否或结婚时间长短。”

孤 —独

作者：威尔科克斯

你笑这世界和你一起笑

你哭却只能一个人哭

因为古老而悲伤的大地必须注入欢乐

它自身的麻烦已经足够多

你歌唱则群山回应

你叹息则散落空寂

欣喜之声引来回声不绝

忧虑之声悄然销声匿迹

你高兴人们会与你相随

你悲伤人们便转身离去

人们愿意分享你所有的喜悦

但不需要你的痛苦

你快乐就会拥有很多朋友

你难过就会失去所有的朋友

没人会拒绝你的美酒

但生活的苦水你必须独自饮下

你设宴便会宾客盈门

你禁食便会与这世界擦肩而过

成功和慷慨有助于你的生

但没有人能够挽救你的死

欢乐的殿堂能容下

一节长长的豪华火车

而那狭长而充满痛苦的通道

我们却必须独自穿

Tears Idle Tears

By Alfred Tennyson

Tears, idle tears, I know not what they mean,

Tears from the depth of some divine despair,

Rise in the heart, and gather in the eyes,

In looking on the happy autumn-fields,

And thinking of the days that are no more.

Fresh as the first beam glittering on a sail,

That brings our friends up from the underworld,

Sad as the last which reddens over one

That sinks with all we love below the verge;

So sad, so fresh, the days that are no more.

Ah, sad and strange as in dark summer dawns

The earliest pipe of half-awakened birds

To dying ears, when unto dying eyes

The casement slowly grows a glimmering square;

So sad, so strange, the days that are no more.

Dear as remembered kisses after death,

And sweet as those by hopeless fancy feigned

On lips that are for others; deep as love,

Deep as first love, and wild with all regret;

O Death in Life ， the days that are no more!

While we think of older people being more solitary, and thus more lonely, this might not actually be true.

According to the work of Julianne Holt-Lunstad, a psychology professor at Brigham Young University in Utah, loneliness is actually at its peak among teenagers and young adults.

Holt-Lunstad and her colleagues analysed 70 studies, and found that there were stronger risks of loneliness-related illness for under- 65s than over-65s.

Also, the US National Social Life, Health and Ageing Project states that just 30% of older adults feel lonely fairly often.

While older people might be alone much of the time, this doesn't mean they are unhappy about it.

In fact, people can feel lonely when they're surrounded by others. Many lonely people are also married.

"Being unmarried is a significant risk," Holt-Lunstad told the New York Times, "but not all marriages are happy ones. We have to consider the quality of relationships, not simply their existence or quantity."

Solitude

by Wilcox

Laugh and the world laughs with you

Weep and you weep alone

For the sad old earth must borrow it's mirth

But has trouble enough of its own

Sing and the hills will answer

Sigh it is lost on the air

The echoes bound to a joyful sound

But shrink from voicing care

Rejoice and men will seek you

Grieve and they turn and go

They want full measure of all your pleasure

But they do not need your woe

Be glad and your friends are many

Be sad and you lose them all

There are none to decline your nectared wine

But alone you must drink life's gall

Feast and your halls are crowded

Fast and the world goes by

Succeed and give and it helps you live

But no man can help you die

There is room in the halls of pleasure

For a long and lordly train

But one by one we must all file on

Through the narrow aisles of pain

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