男女之间，

真正长久的前提是女人欣赏自己的男人，

男人理解自己的女人。

只有这样，幸福之路才能走得更远。

任何单方面的努力都会不愉快，

都不会得到回报。

婚姻是一场悲剧。

Between men and women, 

the real long-term premise is that women appreciate their men,

 men understand their women.

Only in this way can we go further on the road to happiness. 

Any unilateral effort will be unpleasant and unrewarding.

Marriage is a tragedy.