通往成功的路有很多条。

      All roads lead to Rome.

     这世界上有很多浪漫的城市，最出名的要数罗马，巴黎了。（因为有个电影叫《罗马假日》）

    让每天都过得有意义，不是一件容易的事情。
　　 可能每个人都渴望成功，可没有一条通往成功的路上不是布满荆棘、困难重重。
the road to success can't be plain,always be full of thorns,and we need to overcome the difficulties that we have to go forward.
    通往成功的路旁充斥着许多诱人的休息区。
The road to success is lined with many tempting parking spaces.
　　每个人在心理、在情感上，都愿意为成功付出艰辛的努力；但在实际行为中，在经历了几次努力，遭遇了挫折和失败之后，能一如既往的，坚定的朝着既定的方向去为成功而努力的人就不多了。
　　在努力之后没有看到期望的结果时，继续努力，未必会成功；但不继续努力的人，一定不会成功！
　　成功的努力，不仅存在于我们在人生面临抉择和某种巨大挑战的关键时刻或时期，更存在于我们生活的每一天。让每一天都过的意义，就是要让每一天都在为成功付出行动。
    通往爱情的路可能只有一条，I don’t want to win everything but the girl I have loved deep in my heart.
    但是我们知道这世界上经常会有两个人爱上同一个人的情况。我想不出好的解决办法，我想对于男人女人分别有不同的和解方法。如果是两个男人爱上同一个女人，这两个男人可以决斗，也可以相互了解，商量。让那个女子选择，无论她选谁，另一方都应当接受。如果是两个女人爱上同一个男人，那么这两个女人的最终幸运的那个要为另一个女人做媒，安排另一个人去照顾她。 世上的事很多都不是公平的，也不可能完美解决的。 只能说以上这些办法是妥协的对策吧。
 
　　战胜自我，是让每一天都变得有意义的唯一有效方法。我们不仅要战胜自己的贪婪、战胜自己的急功近利、战胜自己松懈的斗志、战胜自己的失落、甚至绝望，更要战胜人类天生的惰性，尤其是要战胜为自己的惰性寻找借口的小聪明。
　　没有人能够真正了解另外一个人不断变化的情绪状态，没有人能够随时把握别人的心理变化，没有人能够知道其他人每天是怎么度过自己的二十四小时，唯有你自己，清楚这一切。
　　但意见、建议反映了你的思考，绩效说明了你的努力和能力，外界的评价往往来自对你工作业绩的客观分析和判断。

　　也许我们的能力有限，我们付出了努力，但并没有得到期望的回报；也许我们自认为取得了理想的成绩，却因为评价体系与标准的不同，我们的付出没有得到自己期望的评价和肯定。
　　这些并不重要，重要的是你的坚持是否一如既往？你是否让自己的每一天都没有虚度？你是否挑战了自己的极限，战胜了自我？

     成功的人的十大特征
   

Top 10 Traits of a Successful Person

转自：http://spotonlists.com/health-lifestyle/top-10-traits-of-successful-person/

Taking something that you believe in and working for it to make it happen is Success. Though, the road to success is not an easy one, full of thorns to travel over. Traversing through the difficult paths are the spurs to success. Success has no short-cut. A long journey which needs passion, power, perseverance, perspicacity and persistence. Fortune favors the diligent, the steadfast and the clear thinker. Successful people are not just dreamers but doers too. The ladder of success is best climbed by stepping on with great fortitude. Success can be obtained by many, but maintaining it requires  passion, avidity and a lust for life. Failure is just one phase of success, which can and will happen, embrace it and the world is yours. Learn from the mistakes and there would be no failure henceforth. keep trying, even if the timing and circumstances aren’t with you. Successful people got there by continuous effort, even if the situation and timing wasn’t perfect.

Success-Requisite and desire of every person on this earth. To some it means following your dreams and goals while to others it means to be happy with family, healthy and wealthy.

LUCK , the magic word, also plays an important role in climbing the ladder of success-Being at the right place, at the right time, doing the right thing. It deserves the fair share of the credit. Whether good or bad luck, it’s just one element to success. When good, let it be the wind in your sail and when bad, stir it frequently with determination and preparation to achieve Success. True Success depends on the ability to take up tough challenges again and again without feeling down in the dumps. It’s more like a game where one has to win and the other has to loose. Winners achieves success and losers try harder for the next time to grab that success.

Successful person thrives for happiness, security and sustenance as every other person does. The difference lies in the way it had been achieved. The road that a successful person crosses is rugged, but still the person keeps on moving forward and that’s how winning is achieved. They started from the bottom and worked their way up in life. Successful person knows that a huge output needs a huge input. They depend on their skill and ambition to succeed. Most people in today’s world will walk away from something or the other because they find it too hard but successful people love challenges and compete with onself, thereby marking a beginning of new era. Successful people sees new opportunities and possibilities where others see trouble. For every person to flourish and grow, following are the top 10 prominent traits:

10. TENACITY

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Successful people are not built overnight. It takes time. Successful people honor the natural and uncertain flow of life. Successful people strive for results, higher returns and for that they work with determination. There is no such thing as “GIVING UP” in a successful person’s mind. They keep on moving harder till the time the goal is achieved. Confidence and indomitable spunk keep them going even in their bad phase or continuing failures. They see only the way up ahead, not the way down beneath. Tenacious people work for success incessantly. Successful people wear the armour of dedication and determination to compete and win.

9. SANGUINE

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To be a successful person, one has to be confidently optimistic and positive. Life has ups and downs. Everthing becomes easier if there is positivity in oneself. They believe that their success is inevitable. Even if things don’t happen the way they are meant to be or planned, they tend to stay calm, composed and positive. Also, prefer to mould the situation with optimism. Thereby, leading to better results. A Sanguine person also are socially enthusiast. They tend to mingle with all kinds of people, enhance their visibility and reach which helps them in attaining their success. Successful people tend to look at the solutions. The mind is focussed on the solving problem rather than worrying about it, and gives a better chance at success. Optimism helps in boosting confidence, and maintaining mental and physical health.

8. CLEAR THINKER

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Successful people need to have clarity of his/her goals, ambitions, desire, mission, vision, and thoughts. The objectives, aims and how to achieve them must be very well stated in his/her mind. No second thought or divergence is acceptable. Neither do procrastinate. Successful people have a well-defined purpose and aren’t easily influenced by the thoughts and opinions of others. They follow their dream with passion which resonates in their heart. Possess strong willpower and clarity, which brings strong results. Successful people live in the present and have the ability to peer over the horizon.

7. TIME-MANAGEMENT

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One of the most important trait to be a successful person is time-management-to allot time effectively and efficiently. Time-the most important asset of a successful person. To be a successful person, one has to learn to respect and value time as time once gone is gone forever, it never comes back. Time-management helps in keeping work-life balance that helps in achieving success at a better pace. With time-management, one can prioritize the task to be done according to their importance and then analyze the output gained in the specified duration. This helps in knowing the level of success achieved.

6. INTEGRITY

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Principle of honesty and sincerity is also an important facet. Person with scrupulous integrity is admired and the most successful. The people with high integrity always do the highest , purest and excellent quality of work in every sphere of life. They are true to oneself and others as well. A person is successful because of the values, beliefs and honesty that he/she retains in himself/herself. Integrity is the manifestation of success. It is easy to make promises but often very hard to keep. But if one keeps that promise and honors commitment, it is an act of integrity, which in turn strengthens your character and thus helps in moving towards the success.

5. AVID LEARNER

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Successful people are avid learners. They often feel that they can learn something from someone else. They tend to incorporate the good qualities of others. They wake-up in the morning excited about their day because they know that they would explore something new and beneficial which will bring them one step closer to achieving their success. They don’t vacillate in learning from others rather try new things  and put themselves out in front. Successful people are leaders as others are attracted to their enthusiasm to learn, explore and grow, and become followers hoping to experience the same.

4. APLOMB

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Aplomb is the foundation of success. One can achieve anything, if he/she has belief in himself/herself. Success is the combination of confidence with competence. The feeling of Confidence is a positive state where the subconscious mind is directed towards the success of a thing. Confidence is like a magnet which attracts things one aspires to achieve. Success is directly proportional to confidence. Increase in confidence, there would be increase in success and vice-versa. Aplomb helps in doing the right things and creates a positive reinforcement.

3. LISTENER AND KEEN OBSERVER

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A successful person must be a good listener and a keen observer. People who listen succeed in life because they are able to know and understand the needs of other people and focus their energy in meeting those needs. Also, they adjust certain behaviour or patterns pertaining to others which helps them to reach their destination. Successful people tend to observe things around them, adapt and mold themselves accordingly in order to achieve their goal. They don’t tolerate flaws, rather observe,  evaluate and fix them.

2. COURAGE

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A person can be successful if he/she is brave enough to tackle every situation that comes onto their way. It is the action that surpasses the feeling of anxiety. Courage to take up new thing, new challenge and make it work is a trait of a successful person. Successful person are not afraid of taking risk and conquering their fears. They are not afraid to burn bridges, if it means moving forward and making your dream a reality. Success takes courage to overcome the fears, and push oneself  beyond the boundaries of comfort and complacency. Helps to expand, jump over the wall of comfort and convenience.

1. OPEN-MINDED

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Successful people are open-minded. They are not bounded by falsities of life. Rather welcome new ideologies, beliefs and inculcate them in their living in order to achieve the success. New experiences are being added up and strengthens onself. Successful people embrace changes and take advantages of the same in order to succeed. They are information hungry. Striving to get more and more knowledge as knowledge is the key to success. Successful people learn and constantly ask questions so that they can enhance their information and thereby, help themselves in succeeding by applying or taking advantage of what they have learnt. The more flexible one is, more opportunities would come their way and would increase the chances of success. Successful people swiftly maneuver in different directions as and when the condition demands.