【要想晚年安稳，顺利养老，绝对不能缺乏这5张底牌】诗韵咏合

The early years of life are not easy, smooth sailing.

When young did not experience, the world is cold and painful.

If you have no experience in life, you can't live independently.

It's much easier to live independently if you suffer a little.

人生早年经不得，一帆风顺安逸过。

年轻时候没经历，人世炎凉与痛苦。

生活若没啥阅历，不能独立去生活。

若吃点亏受点苦，独立生活容易多。

Middle age is a good time to start a career.

Middle age is too easy to do nothing.

Do try to do it, too slow and demoralizing.

 

Work hard to make money, in the end always good.

人生中年的时候，是做事业好时机。

中年时候经不得，无所事事太安逸。

一定尽量要做到，太过悠闲丧斗志。

勤勤奋奋点赚钱，到头终归总好事。

Old age of life can not, ups and downs of adversity.

In his old age he grows old and has no ability to resist.

Too much adversity to withstand, life's risks to withstand.

Don't want to die alone, five cards must be prepared.

人生晚年经不得，风风雨雨逆境行。

到了晚年人衰老，再无任何抵能力。

太多逆境难经受，生活风险经不起。

不想孤苦到终老，五张底牌必须备。

But rich old people, they have more options.

You can eat whatever you want, you can cook whatever you want.

Live the life you want to live.

You don't have to look at anybody to do anything.

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底牌一：不能缺乏保命的存款

Card one: You can't run out of savings to save your life

世上年轻人也好，还是中年人也罢。

亦或还是老年人，穷病沾身谁不怕。

因汤无盐不如水，人无钱财不如鬼。

人世炎凉的世界，人人见之避不及。

Young people or middle-aged people in the world.

Or the elderly, who is not afraid of poverty and illness.

Because soup without salt is not like water, a man without money is better than a ghost.

 

The world is so cold that no one can avoid it.

但有钱的老年人，可有更多的选择。

想吃点啥就吃啥，要想做啥尽皆可。

想过啥样的生活，就过啥样的生活。

做事根本不需要，看任何人的脸色。

If the elderly have no money, there is no choice.

How should the quality of life be, can not be satisfied.

It's not up to you, it's up to the child.

 

What the old people want to do, depends on the face of the child.

若是没钱的老人，根本没啥可选择。

生活质量应如何，不能心安理得做。

啥事不由自己定，只由孩子去定夺。

老年人要做啥人，需看孩子的脸色。

Look at people's faces to live, depend on people's life.

Only to live more and more without human dignity and humor.

They feel no dignity, others look cold eyes.

What if we look up to the sky and sigh?

看人脸色来做人，仰人鼻息的生活。

只会越活越没有，人的尊严与幽默。

自己觉得没尊严，别人白眼冷看着。

人穷志短空惆怅，仰天长叹又如何？

The first principle of pension is to have more savings.

Old age with savings, carefree fairy joy.

There is no savings in old age, a lot of trouble.

 

The difference between clouds and mud is big, heaven and earth live two.

养老第一大原则，就是拥有存款多。

拥有存款的晚年，逍遥自在神仙乐。

没有存款的晚年，捉襟见肘烦恼多。

云泥之别差距大，天上地下两生活。

  

底牌二：不能缺乏健康的体魄。

Bottom card two: can not lack a healthy body.

晚年时候不健康，两大问题烦断肠。

卧病在床问题一，动弹不得空着急。

简直就像植物人，活得再长无意义。

无限风光已不在，丢人现眼空悲切。

Old age is not healthy, two major problems vexed heartbreak.

Bedridden problem number one: you can't move and worry.

It's like a vegetable. It's pointless to live longer.

Infinite scenery is no longer, humiliating eyes empty of sadness

先来谈谈问题一，少年中年转眼去。

对于晚年的人生，如何生活有异议。

高质量活八十岁，低质量活一百岁。

人们应该都明白，如何生活有意义。

Let's talk about problem number one. Teenagers go away in middle age.

There are different opinions about how to live in old age.

High quality live 80 years, low quality live 100 years.

People should all understand how to live a meaningful life.

再来谈谈问题二，久病床前无孝子。

老人无病无痛时，子女个个都欢喜。

孩子对于父母们，都较友善少怨气。

因为他们不需要，既要出钱又出力。

Let's talk about problem number two, too long in bed without filial son.

When the old man is free of disease and pain, all his children are happy.

Children are more friendly and less resentful towards their parents.

Because they don't have to pay and contribute.

如果老人有病痛，卧在病床不能起。

需要每个儿女们，出钱出力去医治。

天长日久儿女们，终究不耐烦那时。

哪怕孝顺的孩子，也会嫌弃父母的。

If the old man has a disease, lying in a hospital bed can not get up.

We need every son and daughter to put their money where their mouth is.

After all, the children are impatient at that time.

 

Even dutiful children despise their parents.

历经世间多少事，方知平安值千金。

平平平安度人生，健健康康过晚景。

它比虚名和浮利，更是具有重要性。

具有健康的体魄，才有应有的自尊。

After many things in the world, we know that peace is worth a thousand pieces of gold.

Pingping an life, healthy after the night.

It is more important than false fame and floating profits.

 

Have a healthy body, have due self-esteem.

 

底牌三：不能缺乏一定的人脉

Card three: can not lack a certain network

很多人都会认为，到了晚年回家庭。

外边人脉就可以，完全放弃独自行。

于是乎成局外人，完全放去旧关系。

在外丝毫无人脉，活成孤家与寡人。

Many people think that returning to the family in old age.

Outside contacts can be, completely give up alone.

So you become an outsider and completely let go of old relationships.

There is no connection outside, living as a lonely and lonely person.

这样真的靠谱吗？它不靠谱不得行。

有此行为的老人，都是心理不平衡。

不懂啥是心理学，以便博弈和制衡。

孤家寡人太弱小，被人欺负叹孤零。

Is that really true? It is unreliable and cannot work.

The elderly who have this behavior are psychologically unbalanced.

I don't know what psychology is, so games and checks and balances.

 

Lonely people are too weak, bullied sigh lonely zero.

退休后还跟以往，同僚保持着联系。

很广人脉尚犹在，门生常上门相聚。

孩子们对于老人，不敢有任何不敬。

只会乖乖地听话，不敢妄动太放肆。

He kept in touch with his old colleagues after he retired.

A lot of contacts are still there, students often come to meet.

The children dare not show any disrespect to the old man.

Only obediently obedient, dare not rashly move too presumptuous.

退休以后若放弃，所有人脉和关系。

变成孤家与寡人，任人揉捏软柿子。

孩子对于老人们，必然就会看不起。

越看不起越就会，对老人们越歧视。

After retirement, if you give up, all connections and connections.

To be alone and lonely, to be kneaded by others.

Children are bound to look down on old people.

The more you look down on them, the more you discriminate against them.

人性本来它就是，都是欺软怕硬的。

外边人脉要重视。也是重视家关系。

只有如此才能够，一内一外平衡持。

当事人们的处境，才会安稳无忧虑。

Human nature is what it is. It's all about bullying.

Pay attention to external contacts. It's also about family relationships.

Only in this way can we balance one inside and one outside.

The situation of the people involved, will be stable without worry.

 

底牌四：不能缺乏留一手的策略

Card four: Can not lack a strategy to save a hand

牢记这样一句话：留上一手保平安。

要有最好的准备，也有最坏的打算。

最好准备是用来，过更好的日子的。

最坏打算是用来，应对生活风险的。

Remember the saying: save one hand for safety.

Prepare for the best, but also the worst.

Better be prepared for a better life.

Worst-case scenarios are for dealing with life's risks

这就是那所谓的，留有余地的后手。

到了孩子长成人，欲分家产等时候。

父母不要将家产，全部都分给孩子。

留下一半分一半，最佳方案应如此。

This is what you call a back hand with a little leeway.

When the children grow up, want to split up the family, etc.

Parents should not give away all the family property to their children.

Leave half and half. That's the best plan.

一定要将自己的，一定家产给孩子。

一部分留自己手，要给自己留余地。

倘若全都给孩子，一旦孩子不争气。

父母到时就必然，毫无选择的余地。

Be sure to give your own, certain property to your children.

Keep some of them to yourself. Give yourself room.

If you give it all to the child, once the child is not good.

Parents will have to. They have no choice.

 

反之只给了一半，父母还留有一半。

哪怕孩子不孝顺，父母也能无忧虑。

留一手在任何时，都是特别重要的。

说句不好听的话，不留一手真可怕。

On the contrary, only half was given, and the parents kept half.

Even if the child is not filial, parents can not worry.

It is especially important to keep one hand on the table at any time.

It's awful not to have a hand, to put it mildly.

 

如果我们在当时，不给自己留一手。

生活就会将我们，逼到无路可以走。

到了无可奈何时，一点办法都没有。

到那时候必然是，追悔莫及不由己。

If we don't keep a hand to ourselves when we do.

Life will drive us to the point where we have no choice.

When there was nothing to be done, there was nothing to be done.

 

And by then it will be, too late to repent.

 

底牌五：不能缺乏拿捏人性的智慧。

Card five: Can not lack the wisdom to handle human nature.

古时候的皇帝们，到了晚年的时候。

为啥会将禁卫军，大权掌握自己手。

或者自己人手上？以保权位不被丢。

The ancient emperors, in their old age.

Why would he take the power of the Praetorian Guard into his own hands.

Or one of our own? To protect the position from being lost.

因信不过身边人，尤其太子皇子们。

隋朝杨坚隋文帝，英名聪明一辈子。

可是晚年犯糊涂，全部大权给儿子。

杨广趁着杨坚病，亲手弑父自登基。

I don't trust the people around me, especially the princes.

Sui Dynasty Yang Jian Sui Wen Emperor, famous smart life.

But in his old age he made a mistake and gave all the power to his son.

Yangguang while Yang Jian disease, personally patricide since the throne.

只要我们阅历史，就会发现尘世里。

不论底层或皇家，晚节不保多如许。

如何才能够避免，晚节不保的事呢？

那就需要当事人，懂得拿捏好人性。

As long as we read history, we will find the world.

No matter the bottom or the royal family, the festival can not be so much.

How do we avoid the risk of losing our lives?

拿捏人心的本质，就是制衡两个字。

在任何的局势里，只要我们有实力。

能够占据着上风，我们安全就无虑。

一些资源把握好，总是会有好处的。

That requires a client who knows how to handle human nature.

The essence of holding people's hearts is the word balance.

In any situation, if we have the strength.

If we have the upper hand, we're safe.

It's always good to have some resources in hand.