【心软一生难，心狠一世顺】诗韵咏合（二）

不要太过于敏感，适度保持迟钝感。

人们日常生活中，不乏一些人捣乱。

总是讲话很难听，又总喜欢揭人短。

倘若过于太心软，被戳痛处特难堪。

Don't be too sensitive. Be moderately dull.

In People's Daily life, there are some people who make trouble.

He's always a tough talker, and he's always telling people the truth.

 

If you are too soft, it will be embarrassing.

凡是心软的人们，容易过度的敏感。

善于观察感受到，情绪细微变化间。

然而这样的后果，成全别人自为难。

与其如此到不如，迟钝一点更简单。

People with soft hearts tend to be overly sensitive.

Good at observing and feeling subtle changes in emotions.

However, the consequences of this make others embarrassed.

 

It's easier to be slow than that.

别太在意人评价，别太在意失与得。

真正让我们感到，不安和被触动的。

不是事物的本身，而是过度的解读。

Don't be too concerned about the evaluation, don't be too concerned about the loss and gain.

There is no need to be sensitive all the time. Dullness is sometimes a virtue.

What really upset and touched us.

Not the thing itself, but the over-interpretation.

如果我们总在意，别人看法怎么的？

凡是遇事总喜欢，专想可能坏结局。

那就容易对自己，失去信心生怀疑。

甚至内心会上演，跌宕起伏电视剧。

If we always care, what do other people think?

I always like to think that everything can end badly.

It's easy to lose confidence and doubt yourself.

 

Even the heart will play, ups and downs of the drama.

无论你是在职场。生活还是婚姻里。

与人相处须学会，心狠一点去应对。

人生才可能幸福，从容不迫处于世。

  心若太软难一生，心狠处世顺一世。

Whether you are in the workplace. Life or marriage.

Get along with people must learn to deal with a little more ruthless.

Life can be happy, leisurely in the world.

If the heart is too soft difficult life, the heart is ruthless.

适当心软适当狠，好好修养势必须。

People who are too soft in the world are really happy.

They hurt others, others hurt themselves.

All will be in the heart, a serious illness can not rise.

 

Appropriate soft and ruthless, good cultivation potential must.

过分心软尽皆是，一场灾难确无疑。

你若行走于世间，总有一些人或事。

对你的好视无睹，欺你得寸就进尺。

带点狠劲讲尺度，让你生活更惬意。

Too much tenderness is a sure recipe for disaster.

If you walk in the world, there are always some people or things.

I can't see your goodness, I can't beat you.

With a little hard to speak of scale, make your life more comfortable.

 

 

 

注，原文来自新浪博客  Artistic conception