Ancient customs
若你细心去观察，你的身边每一人。
动不动就生气者，都是鲁莽又愚钝。
没有一个是智者，没有礼貌说不成。
生活多半一团糟，处处碰壁狼狈行。
If you observe carefully, everyone around
you.
Those who are quick to get angry are
reckless and blunt.
No one is wise, without politeness
can not say.
Life is a mess, running into a
wall.
一个人爱发脾气，都是非常愚蠢的。
高手都是将精力，用在解决问题时。
若一味地发脾气，会让事情生危机。
情况变得更糟糕，解决起来更费力。
It is
very foolish to lose one's temper.
The
best are the ones who put their energy into solving problems.
If you
keep losing your temper, you will make things dangerous.
The
situation gets worse and more difficult to fix.
人的一生生活里，矛盾不堪时时遇。
大多都是因我们，没个稳定的情绪。
杜月笙说这世界，人来人往无数计。
无外乎就三种人，待我一一道你知。
In a person's life, contradictions cannot be met
from time to time.
Mostly because we don't have a stable
mood.
Du Yuesheng said this world, people come and go
countless.
There are three kinds of people, and I'm one of
them, you know.
第一就是头等人，没脾气但有本事。
第二多是中等人，有脾气亦有本事。
第三就是末等人，有脾气却没本事。
做人定要想得开，想得开才是本事。
The
first is the first man, no temper but ability.
The
second most are middling, with temper and skill.
The
third is the last man, who has a temper but no ability.
Life
must be open, open is the ability.
大事就能变小事，小事就能化无事。
你遇事若想不开，小事也能变大事。
大事越变越糟糕，最终无法去解决。
要了未了终难了，使人心中常戚戚。
Big
things can become small things, small things can become
nothing.
Little
things can turn into big things if you don't want to.
Big
things get worse and worse and can't be solved.
To the
end of the difficult, so that the heart is often sad.
若想成为厉害人，要有稳定的情绪。
没有稳定的情绪，买单只能用身体。
想想如今的我们，吃喝一样用一样。
为啥有人常住院，有人身体却无恙。
If you
want to be a powerful person, you need to have a stable mood.
Without
emotional stability, you can only pay with your body.
Think
of us today, eating and drinking all the same.
Why do
some people stay in the hospital and others stay healthy.
因为脾气若不好，身体定会糟糕极。
这个世界上哪有，那么多顺心的事。
谁家锅底没有灰，谁的身上没有疾。
如果总是常抱着，往事不放怀难释。
Because
if the temper is bad, the health will be very bad.
There
are so many things in this world that are going well.
Who has
no ash at the bottom of the pot, who has no disease on the
body.
If you
always hold on to the past, it's hard to let go.
对于伤害你的人，耿耿于怀在心际。
不是在惩罚对方，而是惩罚自身体。
为人你定要知道，真正成熟是放弃。
万事放下心自安，快快乐乐身心逸。
Hold a
grudge against those who hurt you.
It's
not punishing the other person, it's punishing the body.
You
must know that true maturity is giving up.
Everything put down the heart from peace, happy body and
mind.
不是咽下所有苦，闷闷不乐神无主。
而是不管苦不苦，正确面对我自如。
高手都在控情绪，得最大化的好处。
傻瓜才会泄情绪，制造矛盾多事故。
It's
not about swallowing all the pain and moping around.
It's
about being right with me, no matter how hard it is.
Masters
are in control of emotions, to maximize the benefits.
Fools
are the ones who get emotional, create conflicts and
accidents.
如果你是对的话，没有必要发脾气。
如果你是错误的，没有资格发脾气。
天气不好又如何，调整心情面对之。
环境不好就改变，远离人群自安居。
If you
are right, there is no need to lose your temper.
If you
are wrong, you are not entitled to lose your temper.
How
about bad weather? Adjust your mood to face it.
Change
when the environment is bad, live away from people.
真正赢家有几人，多少外出空手还。
不是你赚多少钱，不是当了多大官。
谁能拥有好身体，走到最后便怡然。
People in this life is not easy, a few people sigh a few people
happy.
How many real winners? How many go out empty-handed.
It's not how much money you make, it's not how high you rise.
Who can have a good body, go to the end will be happy.
Mental reader
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