【是人是鬼，一看便知：看清一个人，无需日久，三招就可识破】诗韵咏合

Is a person is a ghost, a look will know: see a person, without a long time, three tricks can be seen through

很多时候被伤害，往往来自身边人。

这就很让人不爽，觉得真是怪事情。

我跟你是那么熟，这么坑我是为甚？

这是世界很多人，内心写照与疑问。

Most of the time to be hurt, often from the people around.

It's very annoying. It's weird.

I know you so well. Why would I do that?

 

This is the inner reflection and question of many people in the world.

其实看透一个人，不是什么大难题。

当你选择朋友是，必须知根又知底。

是人是鬼很重要，日后伤害可杜绝。

看这三点就知道，对方人品大概率。

In fact, see through a person, is not a big problem.

When you choose your friends, you must know your roots.

It is very important to be a man or a ghost.

Look at these three things, you know, people have a high probability of character.

  

凡是落井下石人，与之相处须谨慎。

记得黄渤曾说过：你混得好那时辰。

人人都会对你好，特别身边那些人。

事实真的是这样，前呼后拥一群群。

Those who throw down a stone, with them must be cautious.

Remember Huang Bo once said: you mix well at that time.

Everyone will be nice to you, especially those around you.

And that's exactly what happened. There were crowds.

 

但是朋友多如云，真正知心有几人。

自己好时的朋友，不见得是真朋友。

根本没法评价他，是真是假难鉴定。

但若处于逆境时，是人是鬼自分明。

But there are many friends, a few true bosom friends.

A friend of one's own is not a true friend.

It's impossible to judge him. It's hard to tell if he's real or not.

But in times of adversity, you know who you are.

当你混得不好时，就会发现怪事情：

自己以为的朋友，大多不是靠谱的。

这种时刻还能够，很好对待你的人。

才是真正的朋友，不看重钱重自身。

When you don't do well, you find strange things:

Most of the friends you think you have are not reliable.

It's also a time to treat your people well.

 

Is a true friend, not for money but for themselves.

那些落井下石人，不算朋友使人憎。

有段时间我曾经，工作糟糕难堪情。

没有什么好机会，收入很低说不成。

那段时间我听到，一个朋友乱弹琴。

Those who throw stones at the well, not friends make people hate.

There was a time when I was, like, crappy at work.

There are no good opportunities. The income is very low.

 

Around that time, I heard a friend play the piano.

他在背后传播了，关于很多我事情。

使劲踩我贬低我，让我气愤伤透心。

从那之后我才知，人际关系须谨慎。

不再轻易交朋友，减少伤害的可能。

He spread a lot of things about me behind my back.

Stomp on me, belittle me, make me angry and break my heart.

Since then, I've learned to be careful in relationships.

No longer easy to make friends, reduce the possibility of harm.

真正现实生活里，每天吃吃喝喝的。

一起开心那些人，并非就是真朋友。

若是遇到事情时，一个一个的人们。

能经受住考验的，才是真正的朋友。

In real life, you eat and drink every day.

Those who have fun together are not true friends.

If it comes to things, people one by one.

 

Can withstand the test, is a true friend.

损人利己的朋友，才是最该提防的。

现实之中若有人，借着朋友的关系。

使劲踩你诽谤你，拿你当他垫脚石。

甚至不惜牺牲你，前途获取他利益。

A friend who serves himself at the expense of others is the one to be wary of.

In reality, if someone, through the relationship of friends.

Stomp on you, slander you, use you as a stepping stone.

 

Even at the expense of your career.

这种小人他就是，极为恶毒可憎人。

之前隐藏的很深，手段锋利更残忍。

倘若是你遇到了，十分小心再小心。

下面再举个例子，说明这种势利人。

That's what he is, a wicked, hateful man.

It was deep, sharp and brutal.

If you do, be very careful.

Here is another example of this snob.

 

我遇到过这种人，在职场上一起混。

看着关系不错的，跟他说过一些事。

然后反手就把你，出卖之后邀功去。

或者抢夺你功劳，作为上爬的阶梯。

I've met people like that. I hang out with them at work.

Seems like a good guy. Told him a few things.

And then the backhand will sell you out and take the credit.

Or take your credit, use it as a ladder to climb.

 

 

项目是你出的力，变成他的功劳了。

全部拿去找领导，邀功领赏归己了。

这种人是典型的，损人利己的小人。

朋友之间有利益，必须合作与共赢。

The project was your brainchild. Now he's taking the credit.

Took it all to the leaders, took all the credit.

This kind of person is a classic, selfish at the expense of others.

Friends have interests, must cooperate and win-win.

而绝不是单方面，踩着一方达己愿。

用来达到最大化，自己利益与升迁。

这是小人的行为，这是敌对的鹰犬。

绝对不是真朋友，而是卑鄙的内奸。

Not one side, stepping on one side to achieve their own desires.

To maximize your own interests and advancement.

This is the act of a small man. This is a hostile eagle.

 

Definitely not a real friend, but a dirty mole.

看他做人的低处，知道能不能相处。

在现实的生活里，不是他对你恶劣。

才能看出他人品，才知相交值不值。

若对其他人恶劣，同样不能深交之。

Look at his low points, see if he can get along.

In real life, he's not mean to you.

To see who he is, to see if it's worth it.

If you are bad to others, you can't be close to them either.

若对朋友很恶劣，或对家人很糟糕。

你也同样能验证，他是一个糟糕人。

因为世间一个人，行为思想和品行。

向来都是一贯的，不易改变其秉性。

If you're mean to your friends, if you're mean to your family.

You can also verify that he is a terrible person.

Because a person in the world acts, thinks and behaves.

Has always been consistent, not easy to change its character.

 

他对家人和朋友，尚且如此的专横。

对待你也绝不会，有啥例外和改进。

你还有啥必要性，跟他交往为知心？

的的却却没必要，远离才是好事情。

He was so overbearing to his family and friends.

There will be no exceptions or improvements for you.

Why do you need to associate with him?

 

But don't need to, away is a good thing.

我家里有一亲戚，对待自己的双亲。

兄妹丈夫和儿子，尽都不是怎么的。

对待所谓的朋友，经常不断有微词。

也是无聊闲话多，天天嚼着舌根子。

I have a relative in my family who treats his parents.

Brother and sister husband and son, they're all wrong.

To the so-called friends, there are often constant complaints.

 

Also boring gossip, chewing the root of the tongue every day.

所以世间这个人，本质上就不怎么样。

我也根本不理她，敬而远之不来往。

待人接物存在着，重大缺陷致命伤。

他对待你的方式，不太高明理应当。

So this person in the world, by nature, is not good.

I ignored her and gave her a wide berth.

There's a major flaw in the way you treat people that kills you.

 

The way he treats you is not very reasonable.

你应不会是例外，对它怎样你怎样。

所以遇到这种人，请务当心细思量。

是人是鬼看便知，无须地久与天长。

用此三招便知晓，简单明了知端详。

You should not be the exception to how you treat it.

So when you meet this kind of person, please think carefully.

Is a man or a ghost to see, do not need to last forever.

Use these three tricks to know, simple, clear and detailed.

 

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