1. listening is loving, there is healing in empathy

倾听就是爱，了解中有医治 

2.     to love is to cherish each other 

爱就是彼此珍惜 

 
3. to love is to give others what they need, but not impose what i need onto them 

爱是给以对方所需，而非索取

4.understand the underlying  cause of conflict, strive for win-win resolution 

理解冲突 寻求共赢 

 
5.learning to become an expert in highlighting other people's good intention, virtues and strength 

学习成为不断突出（发现）对方长处和优势的高手

6.pain+blame  relationship killers 

痛苦+怪罪   亲密关系杀手

 
7.pain-blame   intimate  relationship

痛苦-怪罪    加深亲密关系

 
8.for the sake of love , graciously give our loved ones some space 

为了爱给你爱的人留一处空间

 
9.healthy love is : i am fine when you are not around me ; but with your presense , i am made complete 

健康的爱是，没有你时我也活得很好，但有你在，我活得更幸福

 
10. the most precious gift that a man can offer is the honest sharing of his innermost feelings and thoughts 

一个人可以给别人最珍贵的礼物---是他内心深处真正的想法和感受

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