加载中…effective ways to minimize whining zz
(2011-06-14 02:39:27)
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Your 2-year-old now
Have you noticed a new sound in the house — an annoying, grating sound coming from your child's mouth? Whining is to a semiverbal 2-year-old what crying is to a nonverbal baby — it's a way of expressing frustration and impatience. Often preschoolers don't even realize they're whining. That's just how their emotions come out. Whining can quickly escalate into an irritating habit, so it's best if you can nip it in the bud early.The essential strategy is to stick to your guns. If your child whines for something and you give in "just this once," she's likely to whine all the louder and longer next time because she knows it's a possibility that you just might give in again. Another tactic is to point out how unpleasant her tone sounds by mimicking it back to her — a good way to turn a whine into a giggle. Or you can plead helplessness: "I can't understand you when you use that voice." Empathize with the feeling behind the whine and then redirect her: "I know you don't want to have a nap now. You're full of energy. But your voice hurts my ears. Let's do 10 jumping jacks and then read a book."
frada的书摘zz
第一，父母要练出惊人的忍耐力，对任何大声都可以做到充耳不闻
第二，他越大声你越平静，声音越柔和，他会慢慢跟上你的音量的
第三，买 house，买不了house的人，赶紧给家里做隔音
第四，看见娃开吼，马上鼓励他唱歌，想唱啥唱啥
－－－－－－－以上是无可奈何的分割线－－－－－－－
第五，跟他玩indoor voice, outdoor voice的游戏。让他知道，有两种声音音量。
一种在房间内，柔和的音量。一种在外面playground啊之类的地方，可以大声喊叫。
随时随地跟他玩这个游戏：现在用 indoor voice还是outdoor voice啊？说对了就鼓励
表扬。
第二，他越大声你越平静，声音越柔和，他会慢慢跟上你的音量的
第三，买 house，买不了house的人，赶紧给家里做隔音
第四，看见娃开吼，马上鼓励他唱歌，想唱啥唱啥
－－－－－－－以上是无可奈何的分割线－－－－－－－
第五，跟他玩indoor voice, outdoor voice的游戏。让他知道，有两种声音音量。
一种在房间内，柔和的音量。一种在外面playground啊之类的地方，可以大声喊叫。
随时随地跟他玩这个游戏：现在用 indoor voice还是outdoor voice啊？说对了就鼓励
表扬。
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