几则不同场景下，对小孩子教育的实例。

1 It’s movie night! When you arrive at the theatre, tickets to the show you wanted to see are totally sold out. Your child: Takes the blame. It took them too long to get ready. They’ll be gloomy for the rest of the night.
这是电影之夜！当你到达剧院，到你想看到的节目的门票全部售罄。你的孩子会怪罪。他们花了太长时间的期待着此时此刻。这个结局将让他们在接下来的时间里很不爽。

E: It’s OK to feel sad, angry or frustrated when things don’t go your way. But, it’s also important to realize that these things happen. Obstacles can bring opportunities, like time to have ice cream! Adapting to what life throws at you helps you to develop a positive outlook on life and positive thinkers are more resilient.
当事情不顺，觉得感伤，生气或沮丧，这是正常的。但是，同样重要的是认识到，这些事情的发生、障碍也同样可以带来机会，像吃冰淇淋！适应什么样的生活，在你面对措折时，表现出一个积极的人生观，乐观的生活态度，会让你在生活中更加具有弹性并增加你的适应性。


2 While spring cleaning the garage, your child discovers a stack of magazines from the 60s. They:Quickly scan for funny pictures and get back to work.
你的孩子在春季大扫除车库时，发现了一摞本世纪从20到60年代的杂志。他们快速扫描有趣的图片后，然后回去接着清洁。

E: It’s good to stick to a task and get it done, but it’s also good to realize that curiosity can be an important part of learning, regardless of your age. It can help you be more creative and better at problem solving – at home, at school and at work.
You can encourage others to be curious by asking questions yourself, taking joy in learning new things, and by making yourself available to help others learn.

坚持任务很好，并把它做完，但同时好奇心的实现也是学习的重要组成部分。不管你的年龄如何，好奇心可以帮助你具有更多的创造性，更好地解决问题 - 在家里，在学校和工作中。你可以鼓励别人好奇的发问、获得学习新事物的喜悦，同时尽量的使自己能够帮助别人学习。

3 Your child is playing soccer and attempts a winning goal. It’s close, but the goalkeeper blocks the shot. Your child leaves the field saying:“I’m no good! I’m never doing this again.”
你的孩子在一场球赛中，非常接近地踢出制胜一球。但是球被门将挡了出来。比赛结束后，你的孩子说：“我踢不好！我再也不踢球了。“

E: We are all unique in some way and we can all develop our talents and abilities. But it’s important to have realistic expectations of ourselves. Appreciate your effort as well as your abilities. Making mistakes or failing doesn’t mean you ‘can’t’, it just means ‘not this time’. There will be other soccer games or – maybe try lacrosse?
And try to remember: When you are giving feedback to others, it is important to praise honestly. Praising effort rather than ability enhances self-esteem, motivation and performance in the long term.
我们都是独一无二的，我们都可以以某种方式开发我们的才能。但重要的是有自己的现实的期望，对自己努力和自己的能力感激。决策失误或失败并不意味着你不能'，它只是意味着“不是这一次”。还会有其他的足球比赛 - 也许尝试曲棍球吗？
要尽量记住：当你给他人反馈，重要的是要真实的称赞。赞美力量，会增强自尊和自信，并在长期的影响一个人的发展。

4 In the car on the way to the bus station, your child looks sad. You say: “You seem moody. What’s up?” Your child:Says “Thanks, but I’m fine. It’s no big deal.”
在送孩子去学校的路上，你的孩子看起来很伤心。你说：“你好像情绪不对。怎么了？“你的孩子：说”谢谢，我没事。这没什么大不了的。“

Be a patient listener when your loved ones share their fears and experiences. If they don’t want to talk, don’t give up, it may take a few tries to find the right place and time for them to share their feelings.
当您的亲人分享他们的担忧和经验时，要努力做一个耐心的听众。如果他们不想说话，不要放弃，可能需要多尝试几次，找到合适的时间和地点，让他们分享自己的感受。