Student A talks with Chinese girl L about her and her American boyfriend J: 

L says: how are you dear
Student A: fine
L : I am talking to shi J, have no idea how to deal with him
A : then get rid of him, very easy.
L: EXCELLENT! I LOVE that idea.

A: I told you that you wont be happy with him.
L: TRUE, he said he is coming this Saturday, so I will see him anyway for a few days, then I will go home.
A: OK.
L : Below are my conversation with him:

He (J)says: many people tell me my dreams are unrealistic, but they are my dreams and I WILL ACCOMPLISH THEM whether you believe in me or not, I know how to do it.

I(L): Look, MANY people, I'm just ONE of them, people are not blind.
J : These are not just dreams, it is a spiritual calling to help spread traditional world medicines. Most people 95% are blind,  I am in the 5% that sees clearly.
L: the blind always like to tell the people with vision they cant see, you can keep hitting the wall, but you'll be bleeding and broken.  I can see through your future.
J: then my spirit will be released from this dream like world.

A : so are you sure you are done with him?
L : 99% sure, I will see him this last time and confirm what I am doing is right.
A : I see, maybe you should go to ask a fortune-teller.
L : do you know any, I really need that now
A : yes, we can go together. I have a friend, she is also from your hometown(middle of China), she knows a master but the master is only available from the first day of the month till the 15th day of the month by Chinese lunar calendar.

L : I see, so today is not a good day. anyway  I already know that we are not suitable before go to ask a fortuneteller, everyday he is dreaming of. such big man even asks money from his grandparents, I really don't understand why they are so poor, we Chinese are much richer.
A : My hubby is same, he also asked for money from his parents
L : the fact is that he even doesn't speak good Chinese, how can he learn traditional Chinese medicine well which is very hard even for our Chinese. but he still  dreams of, it seems non-stopping. he wants me to encourage him, but I really don't know how to do. he said to me:
You should not tell westerners their dreams are unpractical or daydreams or any of those things you say, many would be upset about that.  It is not polite to tell people their dreams are shi . I said, I say that just because I cant see our future. it is easier to let you forget about me.

 

 

J talks to A:

J says: Hey A have you talked to L?

A says: yes she talks to me about you a lot.

J: what she says?
A: do you want truth?
J: yes of course.
A:  it's very hard for me, cause you both are my friends.
J:  its OK, I need to know, I am a strong man.
A:  well, then ask yourself, listen to your heart. I am not you, nor her, I dont know how much you love each other.
from my opinion, if I love him, I trust him, I support him, I have faith in him.
J: she does not trust me or have faith in me.
A: I don't think you both will be happy.  if she does not trust you or have faith in you, if you can not make good money, she will be unhappy.

J: oh I will, she is talking to me now, she thinks I am a dreamer. She does not believe I can accomplish what i want to in my life and in my business.
A: I trust you, and you will be successful. there are not so many people are dreamer, majority are practical, but only dreamer can be successful.
J : I know, business in in my instinct. business people are often called dreamers.
J: don't worry about woman, when you are successful, a lot of women will come to you.
J: when I met you I was very unfocused, clothing is not really my passion. now I am on focus, medicine is my passion
A: if a woman cannot share hard time with you, then she does not love you. Go to look for woman who trust you, support you, and share hard time with you.
J: yes,  that's the type of women I need.  I think she does trust me so much.
A: not only trust, she has to support you, and share hard time with you.
J: ya, she was very unwilling about me being gone longer, she told me she was leaving me
A: then let her leave

J: I don't want to do that,  I want to get back to China anyway.
A: oh, then don't ask me.
J: I don't like it so much here.  Its good to have your opinion and talk with you about it.
A: I am in middle of you 2, I am like a sandwich.
J: are you the meat or the vegetable?
A: what do you think? I think you both deserve each other.  maybe you should go to ask a fortune-teller.
J: you are the hot sauce. I asked the I Ching.
A: so how is it?

J: At first I thought it told me her boyfriend of 10 years in GZ(Guangzhou) is the man she will marry, that she has just not accepted him.
then i read it a few days later and it sounded like, maybe I was the man she will marry and she has not accepted me.
 I think she has a hard time accepting people at some level.