What are the top 3 elements to play the most important roles during children’s growing up? In my point, they are family, society and school. Who play the most important role? As we know, there are less teachers and more students in China, so teachers always teach children knowledge, help them enter into good university, train them to be good at exams. That’s it. They have no time to educate children how to be good people who are responsible and valuable for society or others. What about the Society? Mainstream medias often report bad news around us. Society is so complicated that someone said it is easy to make children worse, but it is very difficult to make them better. Of course, the family plays the most important role in the children education.

One old saying says the parents are not only the good teachers of the children, but also the good friends. They spend so long time to live together. They know their children so well and know how to educate them effectively. The parents should give good examples to their children and always do as they say in the daily life. Especially in the childhood, children are easy to do as their parents do, so the parents should always remember they are the good examples of children in their eyes.

Take my family as example, I didn’t actually know how to educate my son when he came into this world. I had to learn from my parents, others and the daily lives. I like traveling very much, so I take my son travel around the world each year. It is not necessary for me to tell him big tired theories because he didn’t understand at all. He witnessed the world on his own eyes and thought it over with his brain. He understood it was essential to respect others in the different countries. He would always like to help others who need help indeed. He knew well it was difficult to raise him when we traveled in the poor areas. He began to help us a lot in the daily life. He also knew how important to respect and protect our environment when we were asked to plant trees to compensate carbon oxygen when we traveled in Iceland. I delivered this story in my C8 speech. He rides bike to school every day, tries to use less water only enough to wash his face in the morning. He has his own dream so far and I think he really grow up.

Different parents have their own ways to educate their children, but they are the most important for their children’s growing up.