Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate, and respect myself. If I am empty, then all I can give you is emptiness.

爱是充实的。如果我能真正地热爱，珍惜，欣赏并尊重自己，那么我才能真正爱你。如果我内心空洞，那么我所能给你的也只是我的空虚。

The commitment entails a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain, uncertainty, struggle, despair as well as in times of calm and enjoyment.

承诺包含着一个意愿：在平静快乐的日子里相知相守，在痛苦，迷茫，挣扎，绝望的日子里同舟共济。