该让孩子被逼参加比赛吗?

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小宝参加比赛幼儿故事议论不起 |
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The bear yawning all day
It means the cold winter is coming when the bear begins to yawn.When the snow falls,all the bears go sleep in their holes.
When a little bear began to go sleep,a bird said:"what an unsightly hole."The little bear took a spades to build a mud house after words.
When the mud house was completed,the little bear thought:now i can have a good sleep.The miss fox came and said:"little bear,your new house is too simple!"
After the little bear built a firm stone house,the ostrich said the stone house is too bulky.
After the little bear rebuild a wood house,he feels very tied,but the owl grandpa told him the wood house is too dark to live"what kind of house should be build?"
The little bear didn't have a good sleep all the winter and he was too tired to yawning day and night.
A new winter is coming,This time,the little bear did a clever thing,he carved out an ice bear exactly alike him in front of the house.
Then,the little bear had a good stretch and went to sleep in its hole!
Those animals also buzzed in front of the house with discussions,but this time the little bear could hear nothing.
这是小宝讲的故事《一天到晚打哈欠的熊》,打了份英语上来。
老师告诉我,幼儿园这个月底举行一年一期的幼儿故事比赛,让小宝参加,感激老师给了这个可以锻炼小宝胆量的机会,却忘记事先征询小宝自己的意见再答应老师。
昨天小宝跟我说,老师让她讲故事给小朋友听,小宝讲着讲着,忘词了,小朋友开始在下面七嘴八舌的议论小宝为何不讲下去,小宝开始害怕的更是想不起。老师拿着手机,坐在小宝旁边,偶尔一句,别讲,闭嘴,都听她讲。说完继续看自己的手机,这时小宝还是想不起,一直站着。小宝晚上回来跟我说这些,看得出来她担忧自己的表现,略显有些退缩不想参加这次比赛。我说,你想不想像真正的公主,美丽大方自信的上台表演?
小宝立马摇头说,不想参加,我怕自己讲不好,让别人笑话。
一顿安慰希望小宝能自信点,不必太在意别人的眼光和议论,要学会跟老师多沟通。只要自己专注的把这个故事分享给所有人就好。
晚上想了很久,一直以来,从来没让小宝死记硬背过任何东西,更未刻意教她认字写字背诗经唐诗等,小宝自己也一直都自觉的自然的学自己喜欢的东西,喜欢画画跳舞,家里的画板自己随意画自己想画的东西,旧台历给她,便在上面自己学会了写数字,给她买的书,陪她一起读过后,便放在她能拿到的柜子里,她也随时拿来看。
一直没要求过她要学习,都是自己有学东西的欲望自己主动去学,现在却为了参加比赛,却逼着她死记硬背故事,有些于心不忍。这个世界本残酷,很多人为了名利,却忘了自己往功利的过程中,自己是否快乐。
今天早上跟老师沟通了小宝的担忧及退缩的想法,如果还不想继续讲,另换他人,不必强逼。老师答应说,反正还有些时日,再耐心的多教小宝讲讲。
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