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人生的苦难真是一笔财富吗(原创)

(2009-06-16 00:25:33)
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分类: 幸福的哲学

                              人生的苦难真是一笔财富吗?

 

                                      文/牧师(原创)

 

 

    人们都说“苦难的经历是人生的一笔财富”.如果错误理解这句经典的警世格言,那人生可真是一场灾难. ­

    对于有些人来说,过往的苦难将是终生的苦难,一辈子都难以改变,直到离世的那一天,都会带着苦难进入另一个世界;对于另外一些人来说,苦难却是大浪淘沙后的金子,闪耀着光茫照亮人生的前路.以前我没有理解这句警世格言的真正意义所在,吃了很多苦头,直到人生进入不惑之年,才有些许的感悟,经历了2008年的生死体验和感悟,才品出其中苦味儿.最终苦尽甘来,人生终于出现了亮光,指明了未来的方向. ­

    我是这样理解"苦难的经历是人生的一笔财富"这句警世格言的.如果为环境或其他原因所迫,人生进入低谷,我们的心灵就会蒙尘,痛苦的感觉就会由心而生,所谓的心生苦意,就是说消极的想法让神经处于习惯性紧张状态,牵动身体各项功能衰退.于是心苦(思维消极)又身苦(身体功能衰退).人生过程中,外部的必然或偶然压力事件会让人的思维消极或者说让人的心灵产生扭曲,于是我们感觉自己内心苦苦的,苦难的内心体验也就由此开始.其实这一切都是因为沉沦的思维和心灵产生的焦虑想法.如果带着这种沉沦的思维,不加以任何改变和升华,我们至死都不会感觉幸福,苦难的感觉也会跟随我们进入天堂. ­所以苦难对于不懂得改变和升华自己思维的人来说,苦难永远是苦难,无论是吃过多大的苦也没有多少价值,苦难永远只能是苦难.

    如果哪一天,我们突然感悟到过去的伤心往事都已经过去,象风一样飘过,象水一样流过.过去的伤痛再也不可能重现影响我们当下的生活,如果我们能明示或暗示自己:我们需要当下的幸福和快乐,致使思维开始改变和升华,消极的思维转变成积极的思维,将心灵放松,让内心深处的伤痛不受紧张挤压,心就不会再流血,就算是昨天如何不幸,当下我们就会感觉到幸福,苦难瞬间就消失的无影无踪. ­

    其实苦难并非是一种单纯的经历,苦难是一种对生活的感觉和体验,当思维改变了,我们的生活也就改变了.

    朋友,不要觉得自己是天下最不幸的人,把身边的点点滴滴用阿Q的精神胜利法变得幸福和坦然,其实鲁迅先生真是一位深谙认知心理学的大师,他让阿Q通过认知思维改变产生幸福感,这难道不是我们应该对待人生的态度吗?我们当下就可以把苦难变成财富,财富就在你身边,看你要不要? ­

   求别人施舍幸福,不如求自己,让自己改变思维,所以感悟和放松是每天的必修课.­

(版权所有,侵权必究.网络转载需注明出处和作者名称.­推荐网友们去看一本书《思维改变生活》,这本书也改变了我,好象是一个外国人写的)

            人生的苦难真是一笔财富吗(原创)

(个人的苦难和民族的苦难是一样的道理,必须通过转变和升华,放弃仇恨,个人和民族才能健康发展,我的诗歌《南京!南京!》所表达的观点与本文是一致的)

     People talk about "the experience of suffering is a wealth of life." If the wrong interpretation of this classic cautionary adage that life really is a disaster. 
     For some people, the suffering of the past will be a life-long suffering, it is difficult to change all their lives until the day of death, will enter another world with a misery; for others, suffering is the gold after Ebb Tide shine a light光茫the road of life. This I do not understand the true meaning of cautionary maxims lie, eat a lot of hardship, until the life to enter only some of the insights, experience the life and death experience in 2008 and sentiment, of which only a bitter taste chemicals. eventual life light finally appeared, indicating the direction of the future. 
     I understand this is the case, "the experience of suffering is a life of wealth," the motto of this warning. If the environment or for other reasons, forced into the bottom of life, our hearts will be with dust, the feeling of pain will arise from the heart , the so-called hard Italian hearts, that is negative so nervous at the idea of habitual tension and affects the physical decline. So bitter heart (negative thinking) are also suffering (physical function decline). life process, the external the inevitable pressure of events or by chance would be negative thinking people or people have a twisted mind, so we feel like the heart hard, the suffering of the heart began to experience it. In fact, this is all because of the thinking and the soul to sink the idea of anxiety. If such a decline, with the thinking, not to be any change and sublimation, we will not feel happy death, suffering the feeling will follow us into heaven. So do not know how to change the suffering and the sublimation of their own thinking people who are suffering will always be suffering, no matter how much is eaten how much value there is no suffering, suffering can only be suffering forever. 
     If one day, we suddenly sad past the past have been the past, the same as the wind passes, like water flowing through the same. The past is no longer possible to reproduce the pain of our present life, if we can express or implied ourselves: we need to present well-being and happiness, with the result of thinking began to change and sublimation of negative thinking into positive thinking, mental relaxation will allow the pain from deep inside tight squeeze, the heart will no longer bleeding, Even yesterday, how unfortunate that we will feel the happiness of the moment, suffering the trace disappeared instantly. 
     In fact, the suffering is not a simple experience, the suffering is a feeling of life and experience, when the thinking has changed, our lives will be changed. 
     Friends, do not feel that they are the world's most unfortunate people, the little bit around with the spirit of Ah Q has become the well-being of the victory of law and frankly, in fact, Mr. Lu is a master of cognitive psychology knows that he let the Arab-Israeli Q produced through the well-being of changes in cognitive thinking, and that we should not deal with life's attitude towards you? we can present to the suffering into wealth, wealth is on your side, you like to see? 
    Charity for the well-being of others than for themselves to change the thinking, so awareness and relaxation of the compulsory daily.

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