Synastry Aspects 比较盘的相位

学员余琴翻译

 

 

 

Synastry aspects between natal charts to describe connections between two people. We look at this after first determining each persons relationship needs by studying their natal charts. It is essential to look at both charts first because you really do need to know what the other persons planets are plugging into. Person A’s planets will work like a permanent transit on person B’s planets when they are together, so its important to see just what this planet is triggering in the others chart. This is why reading synastry aspects in isolation can give a false impression.

 

比较盘是把两个人的本命盘放在一起比较，用来描述两人之间的联系互动。

我们先通过个人本命盘，去研究他所需要的亲密关系模式，然后再来比较两人的合盘。

本命盘是非常关键的，因为我们需要知道对方行星的落入到你盘中的地方。

当A与B在一起时,，A的行星作用于B的星盘是类似于一种流年行运盘，

不过这个行运是永久的,我们可以观察A的行星究竟引发了B的命盘中的那个部分。这就是为什么只看比较盘可能会导致错误印象的原因。

For example, a couple may have the Venus conjunct Mars aspect in their synastry. Bingo! But hey, what if that Mars is aggravating an already seething Venus? What if B’s Venus is on the star Algol and conjunct Pluto? Ouch! All that blissful, romantic sexual compatibility could be blown away by extreme obsession, jealousy and even abuse. This may actually be OK if both partners are rather Plutonian, they could even channel this energy into S & M, making it cathartic and healing for them both. So again you need to keep in mind the basic personalities of each partner.

 

 例如,一对夫妇比较盘里可能有金星合相对方火星的相位。

你是说金火相位？

是的！但是嘿，如果火星是给已经怒火中烧的维纳斯火上添油呢？

如果B的金星合相冥王星呢？

哎呦！那么所有的幸福的浪漫的性和谐的感觉可以被极端痴迷,嫉妒,甚至沉溺上瘾的表现给通通破坏。

但如果双方的冥王都很强，这其实是好的机会,他们甚至可以通过SM将这股太强的能量连接到同一个频道里面，

进化和提升治愈双方。所以，我们需要去解读每个人的基本个性先。

 

 

When we look at synastry, we have to sift through all the aspects to get an overall picture. But first we do have to see if we are getting hits on the basics, which I think are important for the long term prospects of a couple. For me the basics are the Sun, Moon and Ascendant (the souls trinity) in aspect to the sexual planets (Venus and Mars) and the social planets of balance (Jupiter and Saturn). If you are a karmic astrologer then the Vertex and the North Node are also important. It’s these basics that I use in the soulmate test that I do as part of my evaluation critera in synastry readings. To me they are the foundations of a successful relationship.

 

 当我们看比较盘时,我们必须统观全盘得到一个整体印象。但首先我们必须看到个人盘的重要性,我认为这是对讨论夫妻长期关系非常必要的。

对我来说，最基本的是太阳、月亮和上升(灵魂的三位一体)与性行星(金星和火星)还有社交平衡的行星(木星和土星)的角度。

如果你是一个业力占星家，那么宿命点和北交点也很重要。

我在解读比较盘依据的正是这些基本原则,作为灵魂伴侣的测试。对我来说，这些行星的相位是一个成功的关系的基础。

 

 

 

Best Synastry Aspects

 

 

Sun Sun Synastry Aspects

 

The Sun is the core of our being and identity so harmonious aspects between Sun’s in synastry will usually be easy going. You are both on the same page basically. You will not challenge each others egos. You are so at ease with the other person that you support each other by just being who you are. Even the opposition isn’t bad because there is a nice magnetic opposites attract feeling. You feel like you compliment each other, that together you are one. The square is the most difficult but it’s still a connection so it is compelling and dynamic. Queen Victoria and Prince Albert had this one, it’s more like “I have met my match”. Ego will take a beating, but they will whip each other into shape.

 

最好的比较盘相位

 

 日日相位

太阳是我们生命的核心和身份证，所以太阳与太阳有着和谐相位的双方关系通常是从容不迫的。你们本质上是同一国的人，不会挑战对方的自尊心，双方是如此的安逸与互相支持,你只要做你自己就好。

甚至冲相也不是坏事,因为会带来很强的异性磁极相吸的感觉。

你觉得你与对方呆在一起很愉悦。四分刑相位是最困难的,但它仍然具有正相位的能量，只是这种连接是引人注目的和动态的。维多利亚女王和阿尔伯特王子有这一个刑相位,它更像是“我遇见了旗鼓相当的对手”。两个人的自我会相互撞击,但他们将彼此鞭策。

 

 

Moon Moon Synastry Aspects

 

The Moon is our habits and our auto-pilot, how we instinctively react. The Moon is how we like to be nurtured and cuddled. So its preferable for the Moon’s to be harmonious in synastry if we want our relationship to feel like a comfy pair of slippers. Domestics are more likely to occur with hard aspects and even the conjunction because the sensitivity that comes with the Moon might just be rubbing a bit too close to the bone when the Moon’s are onto of each other. Either that or it could just be a little too symbiotic, merging into each other so that you don’t know where one ends and the other begins, like you are still in the womb.

 

 月月对比盘相位

 

月亮代表我们的习惯,我们的自动舵,我们本能的反应。

月亮揭示我们如何喜欢被滋润和拥抱。如果我们想要我们的关系感到像穿一双舒适的拖鞋那样自然，那么最好比较盘里面月亮与月亮的相位是和谐的。

 刑克相位，合相位有可能会有摩擦，因为月亮的敏感程度，哪怕只是一点点的冲突也许会引起轩然大波。也有可能是两只月亮有点太共生,互相融合以至于你不知道在哪里结束,在哪里重新开始,就好像你还在子宫里住着一样。

 

Sun Moon Synastry Aspects

 

 This is the classic marriage indicator simply because it is what marriage is all about. The balance of day and night is what keeps the earth fertile. Ying and yang, male and female, partnership and balance. Fertility and growth are the fundamentals of a successful relationship. Even if you are not having children together you want your soul to thrive as well as to be materially comfortable. Harmonious aspects facilitate this fecundity. The opposition makes for a sexy polarity. The square will put obstacles in the way of growth, but the growth may end up being more durable because it will have forced you to build up more resilience. Again Victoria & Albert had this too.

 

日月相位

 

 

这是典型的婚姻指示器,因为它表明婚姻的全部。

就好像日夜交替是维持地球肥沃的基本，阴与阳,男和女,伙伴关系和相互平衡也是这样。

生育孩子和彼此成长是维系一个成功的婚姻关系的基础。

即使你们没有孩子，你也想要你的伴侣能够带来物质的满足感。日月的和谐相位促进这繁殖力。冲相带来的吸引力是非常性感的。

刑相位会设置障碍阻挠彼此间的成长,但增长可能更持久,因为两人间的互动与弹性是此起彼伏（虽然是被迫的）。维多利亚与艾伯特王子就有这个相位。

 

 

Sun Moon Ascendant Synastry Aspects

 

The Ascendant/Desendant is the relationship axis, it is a work in progress, it describes our journey through life and how we adjust ourselves when we are confronted by people and new experiences. The Ascendant is the vehicle of the Soul, while the Luminaries (Sun and Moon) are the drivers. The Sun would be driving in a more conscious, purposeful way whereas the Moon would be more auto-pilot and going with the flow of the river. A sympathetic relationship between the Sun or Moon and the Ascendant means you all want to go in the same direction. Because of this you should both achieve more together, get things done swiftly and as stress free as possible because you are not fighting over the steering wheel. Horse and rider are as one. There is a feeling of  “Us against the world.”

 

太阳月亮与上升的比较盘相位

 

 

上升/下降是代表两性关系的轴,这个轴是动态的,它描述了我们的人生之旅中,当我们面对人们和新的体验时，我们如何调整自己。上升是承载灵魂的交通工具,而发光体(太阳和月亮)则是司机。太阳会朝着更有意识,有目的的方式去驾驶，而月亮则会更偏向自动舵和随波逐流。比较盘里太阳，月亮和上升间的和谐关系意味着你们想去同一个方向。因为这个你们在一起的发展会更好，做事更迅速,没有压力因为你们没有冲突。就好像马与骑马的人融为一体。有一种形容说这种感情叫做“我们一起对抗世界”。

 

Venus Mars Synastry Aspects

 

Of course for most people sex is important in a relationship so it is preferable to have Venus and Mars in aspect. It really doesn’t matter if the aspect is hard or soft, well it might in the bedroom perhaps…These two connecting more or less guarantees sexual chemistry that doesn’t dim too much after the initial excitement fades. The hard aspects seem to make it more potent and exciting. With that also comes the potential for more aggression and a clash of libidos, when one partner wants it and the other isn’t in the mood. The magic Venus/Mars aspect on its own is not enough to hold a couple together. But you certainly need this or another sexual aspect if you want long term zing.

 

金火比较盘相位 

 

 

当然对大多数人来说，性在两性关系里面是很重要的一个方面,所以最好比较盘里面金星和火星有相位。哪怕是刑克相位也没有关系。它可能在卧室也许…这两个连接或多或少的保证了性的化学反应，就算在最初的兴奋消退之后。刑克相位似乎带来更强大的和更令人兴奋的效果。不过，这也涉及潜在的侵略和性欲的冲突,如果一方想要而另一方没情绪。仅有神奇的金星/火星相位，并不足以带来婚姻关系。但是你的确需要这样或者那样的性相位，如果你想两性关系保持长期活力的话。

 

 

North Node Synastry Aspects

 

The North Node in synastry is hugely important because it shows where our soul needs to go to evolve. It is very sweet to see this feature in synastry between a couple, because it shows they are helping each other down the same spiritual path. The North Node conjunct Vertex is one of the top indicators for marriage. Other than the Vertex, then the Luminaries, Ascendant, Venus or Mars conjunct the North Node are going to be a winner as your relationship will be in line with your souls development. A square to the Nodes will be far more challenging and more likely to be a karmic contract type relationship where there is some excess baggage that is blocking you both and needs resolving once and for all.

 

北交的比较盘相位 

 

 

北交是极为重要的节点,因为它显示了我们的灵魂需要去发展的方向。在夫妻的比较盘里面看到北交点的相位是非常棒的！因为它显示了他们是互相说明下去寻求相同的灵性道路。北交点如果合到宿命，这也是一个婚姻关系的高级指示器。其他的发光体，上升，金星或火星如果合到北交，也会相当不错,你们的亲密关系会与你的灵魂发展方向一致。与北交点的刑相位将更具挑战性,这更好像是一种业力关系，就好像有一些超重的行李在那里,挡住你俩的路，需要一劳永逸的解决。

 

 

 

Vertex Synastry Aspects

 

The Vertex works like an alternative Ascendant and is the point of destiny encounters. When someones sexual planet falls on this it can feel very compelling, like whirlpool it draws you in and feels incredibly fated. This sort of contact can be life changing, but it doesn’t mean it is long term. The Vertex effect is like being hit by a thunderbolt and can be enlightening. The Vertex in combination with the luminaries or Saturn is more likely to give the destined feeling mileage. With the sexual planets it could one of those crazy flings that are unforgettable.

 

宿命与上升的比较盘相位

 

 

宿命就像另一个上升揭示我们命运里遭遇的人。当有他人的性行星落在这里，那么这感觉会是非常强的,就好像漩涡一样吸引你,觉得是令人难以置信的命中注定一般。这种相位的影响可能会改变你的生活,但这并不意味着它一定是长期的。这种宿命点的效果，会让人感觉到像遭到雷电击中一般的反应。宿命与发光体（太阳月亮）或土星的组合可能注定感觉会更久。当然，宿命与性行星的连接可能给其中一方带来着没齿难忘的疯狂感觉。

 

Saturn Jupiter Synastry Aspects

 

I like to see an even spread of these two in connection with the personal planets. They are the balancers. You don’t need tons, just enough Saturn to give stamina and relationship glue and just enough Jupiter to give fun and optimism. An imbalance of either is not great. Too much Saturn without Jupiter you can get depression, meanness, obstacles and overworking. Jupiter without Saturn restraint can breed indulgence, infidelity, pipe dreams and gambling. I find the hard aspects work better with Jupiter while the soft work better with Saturn.

 

土星木星的比较盘相位

 

 

我希望看到这两个星体与个人行星的相位能够旗鼓相当。他们彼此是平衡的。你不需要吨,土星带来持久的耐力，是两性关系的强力胶，木星给与乐趣和乐观。二者任何一方如果不平衡，那么这样的关系将很难维系。如果土星效应太强而没有木星效应，你可能会感觉抑郁、无意义、障碍和超负荷工作。而木星效应如果没有土星的克制，可能会导致放纵,不忠,白日梦和赌博。我发现，与木星的刑克相位带来更好的效果，而土星的相位最好是和谐相位。

 

Sun/Moon midpoint Synastry Aspects

 

If we don’t have the luminaries in aspect then then this one more than makes up for it, but only if it is in hard aspect (conjunction, opposition or square). The Sun/Moon midpoint represents the balancing of the masculine and feminine within and the inner marriage. A hard aspect from partner A’s Sun, Moon, AC or Vertex to this point, brings the sun and the Moon together and makes Partner B feel whole. This is also said to be a karmic contract aspect, where one partner has promised something to the other in this lifetime. It could be something like giving the other children or even breaking them up from a stagnant or abusive relationship.

 

 日月中点的比较盘相位

 

 

如果我们没有发光体间（太阳月亮）的相位，那么如果日月中点有相位也是一个不错的选择，或者更好,但前提是日月中点的相位是困难相位(合相,冲相或者刑相位)。太阳/月亮的中点代表婚姻中阴阳的平衡。A的太阳、月亮、上升或者宿命如果与B的日月中点有困难相位，会让B觉得完整，因为这种相位会同时作用于B的太阳月亮。这也同时是一个业力组合来的,在这一世中，一方已经给另一方某些承诺。比如说，给另一方生个孩子，或者将另一方从停滞或虐待关系中解脱出来。

 

 

 

Mercury Synastry Aspects

 

Mercury in synastry is often overlooked, but in the information age it’s value is increasing. Of course communication between a couple is essential because its a bond like any other. With so much competition from social networking sites and the internet, if a couple cannot have stimulating conversations together than after the sexual buzz has worn off there is a real danger of stagnation and bordom. The Mercury aspects don’t always even need to be harmonious, they just need to be connected. A good debate can stimulate the passions and can be great foreplay. The occasional argument is healthy for purging and cleansing bottled up emotions lest they fester and become toxic.

 

水星的比较盘相位

水星在比较盘的相位经常被忽略,但在信息时代，比较盘里水星间的相位愈来愈重要。当然夫妻之间的沟通是很重要的,因为它像任何其他相位一样有着粘合力。面对如此多的来自社交网站和互联网的竞争,如果一对夫妇不能在一起进行有刺激的谈话，在性的吸引力逐渐消退之后，彼此间也许只剩下停滞和无趣。水星间的相位不一定需要和谐相位,他们只是需要有连接。一个好的辩论可以挑起激情,可以是伟大的前戏。偶尔的争执是健康的，可以帮助清洁郁积情绪以免他们溃烂和恶化。