Life  was like a box of chocolate,you never konw what you are going to get.Everyone has different destinies.the key is yourselves.every small step you did,it would be giant leap for mankind.so i consider life can be bake ,barbecue,boil,broil saute.no matter how to treat it,you may be have an unprecedented immense success.So long time ,we have acquired .......you got to put the  past behind you before you can move on .