这年头，当个情感砖家还要懂英文啊！伤不起！求翻译！！！

A女：在一起5个月的男友除了SEX不和谐，其他的都很好-尝试多次，也建议他看医生了-但我很怀疑能不能看好--以前的两任男友都没有这方面的问题，他答应着却总是推脱-我向往的是身体合拍的伴侣-可又不知道仅仅因为这个分开是否值得，不想轻易错过一个真心对我的人也担心下一个男人即使身体合拍其他方面也会有种种问题，怎么办？其实现在每次在一起试 过之后，心里都在说：离开他离开他！我知道自己已经在这方面开始嫌弃他了，与其如此不如当断则断，不然他也受伤。他没有错只是我们想要的东西不同。我是不 是很自私。



1. although we did it many times, but actually he has never entered my place--I guess that's because his stuff is not firm enough-it feels softer than both my exes-I do not miss them and do not regret breaking up with them but had to admit that I can't help comparing

2.though he may become bigger and harder when he gets excited, he is easy to become soft again

3. he was bad at first-he may only hold 2 minutes or so before he gets soft again and he needs to use a lot of stimulations to make himself excited again, but what's annoying is that he gets better, now he can hold a little bit longer, about 5-8 mins, long enough to make me have orgasm-however it does not feel so good cause that thing is still not hard and he is still never really inside me


4. I can see that I have orgasm mostly due to that I am sensitive and I have tried my best to cooperate with him, However it does not feel so good-especially each time after I was high, he needs to take so much effort and longer to get high too, and sometimes he asked me to use my hand to help him-which however makes me feel disgusting-

5. To summarize, I did not enjoy the sex process so much-sometimes I even refused him and tried to escape fromit-However, when I became lonely I can feel that i am still longing for his hug and kisses and what comes after-I think what I am really longing for is someone that I strongly love and want to have an exhausting sex with-he is not the best choice but a man at hand-loneliness can be killing


6. I am not sure whether his situation is what we generally call Yangwei-I guess it should be-Some people say it is curable, some say it can be hardly cured. I was confused. Even though I had successful sex experiences with my exes, I am still not sure what situation should be considered as unbearable and unsuccessful according to general standard


：7. Summarize again-he does not last so long,and he is kind of soft-I do not feel so great when being with him although there is orgasm, it is not so wonderful-but what makes me hesitant is that he gets better to some extent, though far from my satisfaction-I am not sure how better he can get-especially now he himself realizes the problem and is talking about getting a Gym card to do exercises